Search Results: he has to ask me something

So my long distance boyfriend doesn’t call me too often, he will occasionally but i would like if he did it more. When i ask him if he’d be down to call he says he has class early and wants to get some sleep, which i understand i would just like him to set a date and time to call me.

I’ve brought this up with him and he says he’s really not that into phone calls in general and i understand this as well but being in an ldr i would like it if he gave it a bit more importance because it’s important to me.

We text every single day and we have really long conversations they’re not dry at all but i would like it if we could have maybe a weekly phone call or something like that.

is his lack of enthusiasm to call him becoming uninterested in me or is it simply because he’s gotten more comfortable and doesn’t see it as a necessity?

If you ask a girl out on a date and she refuses for a long time and you keep insisting until finally she says yes, you take her to a restaurant but when it comes time to order, you order a cheesecake.

you invited her to a dinner date but you order a cheesecake? Does this mean something?

of course after he ordered a cheese cake I felt weird ordering an actual plate so I ordered a cheesecake as well lol. Wtf? I was kind of happy I didn’t order first that would have been too awkward.

p. s. I had never been on a first date ever so I don't know if people on first dates are scared to eat real food or if this has a different meaning like he insisted so much but wants to end the date as soon as it starts because cheesecake will be served almost instantly and finish it just as fast?