Search Results: turn offs for a guy

Please I need advice?

So I started hanging out with a guy with the intentions of having a consistent friends with benefits / cuddle buddy situationship. He is always the one to initiate the conversation and he is the one that is usually asking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think girl end up sleeping with the same guy because they only like guys that don't like them?

I'll give you a quick example, I used to sing and post my self on social media singing, girls would compliment me and ask to meet up. But if those girls never knew I could sing and I messaged them first, they would be...

chris_987

Yoda Age: 38

Have you ever been disappointed with someone when they took their clothes off?

I feel like a horrible person, I briefly dated a guy who I didn’t have feelings for but I appreciated him for his personality, his smartness and his care to me. I also liked his style, he was very tall and had a really...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Girls, does a feminist guy melt your heart and increase your physical attraction towards him?

Like for example, does hearing a guy say he's for abortion increase your attraction towards him, or does it turn you off?

Bethany22

Guru Age: 31

Like for example, does hearing a guy say he's for abortion increase your attraction towards him, or does it turn you off?

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To Wait, Not to Wait, or Is There a Third Option?

So … I have been interested in a woman for a while now that I only ever see at my church. Due to factors in both of our lives, either she or I had been absent from church a lot since Christmas. Of the few times we were...

UmbrusNightshade

Xper 5 Age: 40

Girls, Is it a dealbreaker for you if a guy is living at home?

I have a job and a good amount of money. I just don't know where I want to live yet... but when the living situation question comes up this definitely turns off more women than it doesn't... So it's clearly a problem. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I have a job and a good amount of money. I just don't know where I want to live yet... but when the living situation question comes up this definitely turns off more women than it

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Relationships

I think I'm in a toxic relationship and I don't really know what to do.

Issues 1. Communication- I feel that there Is a double standard in our marriage. I’m the bad guy if he brings up something that makes him upset or mad and I don’t correct my behavior; however, If I bring up...

DexWest

Xper 7 Age: 33

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Guys, He seems amused then turned off?

My morning started off great, is musing with fun little banter, he constantly smiling to smell with everything I said. My friend standing around said she can tell he enjoys my company & love having me around. Then went to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to end things with my friends with benefits I don’t think I can continue with it anymore?

I’m 31(f) and he is 34 (m) he is a boxer I’ve always tried to keep the conversation light hearted and sexual as I was getting the vibe he just wanted sexual. Throughout our conversations he’s been telling me that his body...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What makes you look or stare at others in public?

People tend to look at me quite a lot or stare. I even had someone’s kid today walking in front of me and when he saw me, he turned round and started walking backwards staring at me. I went to the mall today and notice...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, As a man how turned off would you be if a woman said “I like you. If you like me too, please ask me out and pursue me”?

Just wondering if men would be super put off by a woman basically saying “I like you and you’ve got a decent chance with me if you want to pursue me.”

newgirlontheblack

Xper 4 Age: 35

Girls, Can I get a girl's advice on my recent break-up?

My ex and I stopped dating in December, and for about a month after we still had sex and acted like we were together even though we weren't. Recently she went on a date with a guy she has been told by friends is...

Jenom

Xper 6 Age: 39

Was he abusive or am I overreacting?

So I've been dating this guy on and off 3 years. It's been very up and down. We had been dating consistently again for several months. To begin with, he was being really nice, taking me out for meals and being really...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How do people do this?

so i am single but got out of a relationship back in August. a lot of times i’ll here a girl or guy say they aren’t interested in dating or have too much going on. not to me just in general. For me though it feels i’m...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Part 2: Nice Guys Aren't Actually Nice

So keep in mind, this is the same exact "nice guy" that you all completely roasted my ass about while victimizing him in the last take. Despite all of that though, I did my best to give him another shot because of course...

Bre_0611

Xper 4 Age: 28

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Should I dress down when around this guy?

My bestie and my mum said he fancies me and I wouldn’t have noticed if I hadn’t caught him checking me out. I thought the friendzone was permanent. I’m going out with him as friends soon, one on one. Should I dress down?...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Ladies, how would you react if a short guy flirts with you?

Short as in around 5'3". Would you be interested, insulted, impressed, creeped out, turned off, etc? How tall are you?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Toxic ex gave me trauma and is now dating a new girl. Is it bad that I'm angry and think its unfair that he's happily taken while I'm still suffering?

I broke up with my toxic and abusive boyfriend after dating him for almost 5 years. He was the classic green flag who turned out to be a major red flag. The duration and aftermath of the relationship influenced my mental...

Anonymous

(25-29)