Search Results: he was the one who cheated on me

Why do guys always reject me for slimmer or more fit women?

I’ve been a big girl all my life, never been at a healthy weight or anything like that. My parents said I’m just big bones and not everyone can be thin and just embrace who I am. I was 5’10 and 267lbs. There parents of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

To me, friends and relationships are the song Nutshell by Alive in Chains. Where do I go from here?

If you haven't heard the song, I recommend giving it a listen, in my humble opinion it's the saddest song ever recorded. Anyways, I've opened up and given my heart to 3 women. All of them have broken it. The 1st one, my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do women, who cheat, get mad when the person they cheated with, cheats on them, or chooses to go back to their wives?

One would think it is expected. But you see this all the time, where a cheater feels some how betrayed that the person they cheated with, cheats on them, or goes back to their wives. Honestly i have ZERO sympathy for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it weird to actually enjoy being single?

I honestly love being single—no stress about cheating or having to please someone all the time. I feel way more free, no chains. My friends don’t pressure me to date or hook up, but they do brag about doing those things...

Mon1to

Xper 5 Age: 18

Why won't my boyfriend accept his share of the responsibility for ny cheating on him?

Like he's been phoning the sex in, he's let himself go and when a guy has a small one he should really be putting the effort in. I kinda feel i was driven into the arms of another man who could do what he couldn't or...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Reasons why people cheat

Don’t get me wrong cheating is scummy there is no excuse this is just possible insight as to why people cheat. I’ve covered before the signs someone’s cheating but these are more of reasons why people do it rather then...

Summeroflove

Influencer Age: 30

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Is it wrong for me to ask this?

So my boyfriend has this male friend which I'm not really fond of, because 1) He left his girlfriend for another girl but then things didn't work out and he shamelessly asked her to get back together (and she forgave him)...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why would a woman be pissed off that the court canceled child support and ordered her to pay it back when her ex was proved not the father via DNA?

Its a simple question. One would think she would want the truth right? I was sitting in a family court session recently, and This woman, who cheated on her husband, and then divorced him, Later it was determined that he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why people use others in romantic relationships

Unfortunately most people aren’t honest about what they’re wanting when they are going to use someone. They love bomb I’ve discussed the signs someone isn’t who someone seems, but these are the reasons behind it. Of...

Summeroflove

Influencer Age: 30

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The unspoken - sometimes unrecognized - cost of cheating.

If you have never been the victim of a cheating partner, you'll probably understand this MyTake on an intellectual level, but if you have every discovered that your partner has cheated, this will most likely resonate with...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Would you rather cheat on your partner or be the one that gets cheated on?

I’ve been both the cheater and the one who got cheated on but honestly, I’d rather get cheated on. I learned my lesson from having cheated in the past and the guilt just kills you. Getting cheated on hurts sooo much more...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’ve been both the cheater and the one who got cheated on but honestly, I’d rather get cheated on. I learned my lesson from having cheated in the past and the guilt just kills you.

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Why do guys ALWAYS leave me for gorgeous women?

Okay so I think I’m okay looking. I’m not gorgeous but I’m not ugly. I don’t really dress up, I just wear cute blouses, jeans, sneakers, band shirts or flannel shirts. I don’t dress feminine but I don’t dress manly. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why do people value looks over character in every aspect of life?

For starters, this is NOT about dating or sex. I see this all the time in the professional world, as well as just in general life. I can't help but notice that if you take two people, one who is conventionally attractive...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My Brother - IN LAW - is obsessed with me?

I have a half sister I was not close with growing up. when I turned 24, she had her first baby with her abusive husband, who I never met until then, he was always beating her up, cheated on her the night she had my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend keeps condoms but we don't use & he verbally abusive when I find one & ask him? is he definitely cheating? is any chance he not lying?

I've found condoms about 5 times now at my boyfriend's house but he doesn't use condoms with me! When I find one and ask him where it came from, he becomes extremely verbally and emotionally abusive to me and tells me to,...

Lyndseylou38

Xper 3 Age: 35

Why do some guys ignores and blocked u when they dont need u?

Im in a relationship to a guy whom i met online year 2021 but were living in the same country. So every weekend i go to his place for visit. He is 54 and Im 45 years old. He is divorced have son but not living with him....

ebabaran142

Xper 5 Age: 46

Guys, What would compel you to cheat on your wife... with her sister?

I was working on a project with a friend who's been married 30+ years to a guy I can only politely describe as... not nice looking. She, by contrast, is a very peppy, nice-looking gal a little older than me. Great shape,...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Why don’t guys ever have a crush on me that much?

I don’t understand, I have a kind heart, beautiful inside and out (even though I’m fat), helpful, funny and a crazy goofball, but I haven’t had a boyfriend since high school. I know I’m not the ideal size of a girl....

Anonymous

(25-29)