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What is the attachment type of this person?

They were securely attached for many years, until a very disruptive long term relationship which left him traumatized, he never had a relationship last longer than a year since then and he is nowadays scared of...
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Why Do People Choose Breakups Over Fighting for Their Relationship?

"Can we talk about how wild it is that so many people jump straight to breakup mode when things get tough in a relationship? Seriously, is that really the go-to solution now? 🥴 It feels like everyone has this ‘out’...
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Does being in a relationship for 10 months mean you're expected to take things seriously for the long term?

I'm kinda freaking out. I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months, and I have no idea what I want long-term. I'm unsure if I'm ready for serious commitment or if she’s the one. The thought of breaking up terrifies me,...
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How does a man properly vet his partner and determine if she would stay loyal to him through both good times and bad times?

To clarify, no matter how attractive a woman was, no matter how much I felt in love with her, or she felt in love with me, I would never marry a woman unless I was absolutely 100% certain in my mind without a conscious...
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Doesn’t want to hurt me?

Hanging out with this guy, we’re both moving away have hooked up a few times and we’ve a beautiful intense emotional bond! I think they’re great, I’m 5 years older and I know this will end. I don’t expect a...
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Would a medical condition be a red flag that would stop you from dating a person?

A co-worker and friend, named James, was divorced a few years ago. He has used online dating and has met several women through dating sites. One of them - Judy, 59 - is a very attractive woman, fit, cute face,...
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Am I wrong for leaving my girlfriend after she turned me down for my second proposal?

I (41M) have been dating my ex girlfriend (39F) for nearly Six years. Our relationship was a good one. Two years ago I informed her family and friends I was going to propose to her while we were on a family vacation and...
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Are you afraid of commitment? If so, why? And if not, what makes you feel confident about it?

When I say I believe in traditional relationships, I mean that I value long-term commitment, stability, and a strong emotional bond between partners. In such relationships, I personally believe in traditional...
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Do you think relationship dynamics have completely changed in today’s world?

In today’s world, relationship dynamics have undergone profound changes driven by the rise of digital communication and shifting social norms. Online platforms have revolutionized how people meet and interact, often...
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Women Got Angry Because Men Started Learning

As many of you know, I’m not into a lot of RedPill or MGTOW, although I think MGTOW is less of a thing nowadays because RedPill is probably just an evolved form of MGTOW. I don’t agree with most of it, especially with its...
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What is your relationship count (NOT body count)?

I know you've seen many questions on this site asking about your BODY count. So many people think that the most important number is how many partners you've given your naked body. That's important, to some extent, but how...
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I know you've seen many questions on this site asking about your BODY count. So many people think that the most important number is how many partners you've given your naked body. Show More
I've never been in love or a long term relationship.
I've been in love or a long term relationship one time.
I've been in love or a long term relationship two times.
I've been in love or a long term relationship three times.
I've been in love or a long term relationship four times.
I've been in love or a long term relationship five times.
I've been in love or a long term relationship more than five times.
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Fear of commitment?

We have dated 4 times and there is distance between us so he had to travel 2 hours to see me. To spend more time he wanted to go on vacation with me for a couple days. It was early for me but the connection between us was...
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Zodiacs, Rise Again (Redux) 🙌

I’ve written something similar before and yes I’ll be writing something similar again. It’s very therapeutic when I express myself in writing about my experiences. So allow me to relax, see if you relate, and let’s all...
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Do committed relationships make you anxious?

Over the years I've watched many friends and acquaintances bolt when the time comes to declare a commitment in the relationship they've happily been building towards for years. While I exercise caution, having gone...
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Why would my boyfriend always be thinking of our future early in the relationship?

For context, we became officially in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than 1 week now, about 10 days but we've been talking for 4 months. However, aside from being clingy, and always mentioning that he's always...
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We could never be together and now I’d rather die?

He was my first love at the age of 15, I have always felt we were soulmates, we went our separate ways at 19 and found new relationships fast, we both married young and had children. The marriages lasted a while and we...
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Is it ok to feel sad to see other women in stagnant relationships?

I was once there (not anymore) and know exactly how it feels. There was a time I was depressed. Last week or so, a female acquaintance asked me for my advice on how her relationship of 1 year can progress and how she can...
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I’ve been a girlfriend for 7yrs. Am I wasting time?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7yrs. I was a bad girlfriend for the first couple of years. I come from a destructive family and I was very damaged. Along the way I made mistakes and cheated. I have done my best to repair...
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A (Belated) Graduation Speech and Other Important Lessons

To the class of...well, whatever year you’re reading this, I’ll begin by first saying “Congratulations”. Then “Good luck”. I’d like to share some things about my life and experience since I graduated from college. In...
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Should I give marriage ultimatum to my partner after 5 years?

We’ve been together for nearly five years, We’ve lived together on and off during the pandemic, as I travel often to help with family. We do long-distance well and share compatible life goals. He’s a wonderful partner,...
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