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A friend and I were having a discussion. I don’t block people unless they’re harassing or annoying me. If I do and it’s that drastic I will block across the board but usually I only block on the platform the person kept contacting me on (usually iPhone). She always blocks across the board.

I’ll use my most recent ex as an example. He blocked me on facebook but not instagram as I was still getting updates from him until I unfollowed him (we don’t follow each other though). I don’t know if he has me blocked on the phone as I haven’t tried calling or texting him lately.

I’m not trying to be a troll nor am I stalking my ex (I just used him as an example and stating what I observed from him). Obviously no answer is right or wrong. I’m genuinely curious what other people’s thoughts are.

Have you ever been in a position where your relationship broke down, and you wandered to where the grass seemed greener, only to realise it wasn’t as green?

Maybe that person doesn’t handle things the way your ex did, they’re not as attractive or as intelligent as your ex. But it takes you months to a year to realise what you thought was better isn’t actually better? I’ve done this.

I’ve been with someone new for about a year now and I’d say things are getting serious. But I still cannot face the thought of ever facing my ex or bumping into him. Like I don’t know if that would shake me up or something.

Is that normal?