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Is this aspect of our relationship toxic?

To preface, we’ve known each other for a year (we went on dates, it was a situationship, he wasn’t ready for me to be his girlfriend due to him wanting to advance in life first, he was doing the boyfriend duties and we...
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Guy I started dating purposefully doesn’t want to sleep with me right away. Is this a good thing? Is he not attracted to me?

I met this guy online and we’ve been talking a month every day all day. We really clicked and developed feelings within this time. We shared pics, phone calls. We sexted some. We both don’t do this often. It was genuine...
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What’s the best way to initiate physical intimacy with a man?

I’ve known my boyfriend for almost a year now. But we’ve only been dating since July. We have an 11-year-age gap with him being almost 50. Long story short, the most we’ve done is kiss… but not extended kissing like...
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Do men *have* to pursue women?

Do you like when a guy does the "traditional man thing" and pursues whoever catches his interest with fervor? Do you like someone who leaves his crushes alone, or takes more subtle ways to put himself out there? This...
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Do you like when a guy does the "traditional man thing" and pursues whoever catches his interest with fervor? Do you like someone who leaves his crushes alone, or takes more subtle Show More
I think men specifically need to pursue who they're interested in
I think it should be either way, women can make moves
Neither above option describes how I feel about it
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Do you avoid rejection?

I’m just wonder why, how, who made it an unwritten rule that men are always the ones to be the pursuers? Is it just natural for women to feel like the man has to approach her. Or were you taught this? it almost seems like...
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What’s going on with this situation?

So I met this guy. He says that we know each other, he knows stuff about my personality and he won’t reveal who he is. He says we loved each other, but that we lost contact. I remember I said I loved two guys, an ex...
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Why won’t he agree to meet up with me?

I was added by a man on Facebook who claimed that he knows me and that I was once in love with him and told him so. He knows me, knows stuff about my personality as well that I hadn’t revealed online. I asked him to catch...
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Is it ok to ask him out first?

Someone told me that I’m beautiful. He’s been talking and flirting, but acting shy as well. He’s cute and he seems fun to talk to. Should I continue to get to know him better, or ask him out first? I usually have to ask...
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Is it normal I want to be subdued by a man?

I use to have my own ideas about being ij charge of what he does to me but now I met this man with super piercing eyes and energy and he goes right through me. He’s so in control that I don’t even want to assert my way at...
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Do I probably know this man?

A guy added me to Facebook. When I told him he looked familiar, he kept agreeing that I looked very familiar, but was vague about how we met. He said he has Asperger’s syndrome and that he doesn’t make friends easily. I...
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Why does this keep happening to me when dating?

everytime a guy talks to me they always tell me i’m a very interesting and magnetic girl and they go super fast and intense (lovebombing if you could call it that) very quickly, i feel a bit suffocated most of the time...
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I like a dude at my gym and I don't know what to do anymore?

There is this man who works at my gym that I became instantly attracted to at first sight on my very first day at that gym. We have had very brief conversations, smile at each other sometimes and say hi and meet each...
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Ladies, How much does confidence play into a man’s attractiveness?

I’ve never had much luck on dating apps, when I meet girls in person on the other hand, I rarely get turned down. (At least recently😆) I was always pretty shy and nervous around the fairer sex when I was growing up and...
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How do you deal with the guilt after showing ungrounded jealousy?

I am usually not the one to start a drama over jealousy, or to feel easily jealous, but yesterday I allowed myself express the negative emotion for what I later figured out was a totally ungrounded feeling. I feel so shy...
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Guys: Is it weird to "like" a guy's Facebook pictures suddenly after being friends for months? Also, suggestions on flirting with a shy man?

I'm trying to subtly flirt with a shy male friend of mine. We're not close friends, but friends. I like him, and we've known each other for a while and we've been Facebook friends for about 6 months now. I think he likes...
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Why does it seem like men who already have girlfriends are the ones who seem or act or feel like they’re the most entitled to other women’s energy?

Why are guys with girlfriends the ones who have seemed the most entitled to my time and energy and life? I know you’re thinking ‘well why are you giving them attention or your time etc?’ But these have been coworkers who...
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How does a man decide which women are gonna be seen as walking holes versus which ones he would give the chance to get to know?

I feel like my secret work crush boss chose me for the former and I don't know why. I think people just think because I’m really quiet or shy that I am not worth befriending? He also stared at my covered chest recently...
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Men, what was it like dating (after healing) out of a divorce?

I do have a couple more questions too.. This guy was going through a divorce with his now ex wife. I was lightly talking him during the separation. When I say "lightly" I mean no intimacy what so ever in text or in...
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I wasted my heart on my crush. How do I move in and stop the bleeding?

I need to stop my heart from thinking of him. He’s not who I thought he was. Who I assumed he was. He is a quiet man. I assumed he’s shy. I assumed he’s nice. But he talks to people. I just never see it. And he doesn’t...
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