Search Results: not ready for serious relationship

Is it okay to start dating two months after ending a serious relationship?

I wasn't the one who initiated the breakup tho. Been doing a lot of healing since then and I feel like I'm ready to start meeting new people.

sheikalana

Master Age: 37

Does talking to someone else while you’re not yet in a relationship count as “cheating”?

Back when we were casually “dating”, I was still talking to my ex (I was very open about this to everyone). My current boyfriend, let’s call him S, so S and I weren’t official bc he still needed time to move on from his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would he stop responding now?

My ex and I broke up a few months ago because he wasn’t “ready” for something serious as he was in a very long relationship right before we met. I missed him over the summer and sent him a message last month. His first...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what do you think the guy I’m seeing feels about this other girl he’s texting?

I posted a few weeks ago about a guy im seeing- I snooped in his phone (I know it’s wrong) but saw a text chat with a girl he dated right before me. He said he liked her but she wanted something serious and he wasn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can a man truly be interested and not be ready for a relationship yet?

I been seeing a guy casually and I caught feelings for him and it he says he has too. However I don’t feel that he is too serious about me. He claims that because of his work situation he’s “not ready for a relationship...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ok guys he's considering breaking up over a prank, isn't this an overreaction?

This is an update to yesterday's post: So more men want kids than those that don't want? Things got serious too much. Now he's thinking of leaving me and isn't sure of wanting to continue the relationship. Never expected...

Anonymous

(25-29)

This is an update to yesterday's post: So more men want kids than those that don't want? Things got serious too much. Now he's thinking of leaving me and isn't sure of wanting to

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Deep dive in to what it means to a man when women say "I am proud Dog Mom", or "I am interested in making new friends" on their online dating profile.

Obviously men go to online dating apps for a variety of reasons, but primarily these guys break down into two categories; the ones that are looking for quick and easy sex, and the ones who are genuinely looking for a...

DaveJord

Editor Age: 49

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How do emotionally unavailable men feel about emotionally unavailable women?

I think I’m emotionally unavailable.. actually I’m pretty sure I am as I’m not in a space for a serious relationship at the moment, or anything involving heavy emotions for that matter. I met a guy who I quite like, we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What did he mean by the text he sent her?

I’ve been seeing this guy over the summer. We aren’t official. I snooped in his phone and saw these texts with a girl he dated right before me. He liked her but broke it off because it was serious right away and he wasn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I indicate that I want a relationship without scaring men off?

I (26f) am really ready to find The One and settle down + have kids. I want to meet guys who want the same thing and who are a good fit. However, whenever I meet a guy we'll flirt and end up having sex and then he will...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, are you usually looking to settle down in your late 20’s-30’s?

So I’m 29 and I have never dated anyone before, I have also never been in a relationship obviously. I’m asking this because I get the feeling that if I start dating now, most of the girls in my age group will have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I’m 29 and I have never dated anyone before, I have also never been in a relationship obviously. I’m asking this because I get the feeling that if I start dating now, most of the

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Is she giving me another chance or just being friendly?

I text a girl from work for a year and we made out but there was never anything serious. I wasn't particularly looking for a relationship and her ex treated her like dirt, her family hated him and she wasn't ready for a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

How this guy I love keeps running away from a relationship, but won't let me go?

We have found ourselves in a circle of problems and commitment issues so many times. I feel that he wants me be can't be in a relationship. I couldn't understand that in the last 2 years of being together. I kept running...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

The British women is showing me some potential girlfriend materials?

It’s only been almost 2 weeks but the British women is now showing some potential girlfriend materials. If she’s stays on the same page and I will know when she’s ready to become more then friends. From what I gathered...

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

Is he being honest?

When men tell you that they just got out a long term relationship and aren’t ready for anything serious, is that them being honest? I spent an amazing weekend with a guy, met all his friends, danced and laughed loads. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he actually love me?

There’s this guy that I have been off and on with for the last few years. I’ve broken up with him twice, once because I wasn’t ready for a serious relationship and the other time because he sent n*des to another girl....

carlyd1015

Xper 4 Age: 22

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years, and he's still not ready to move in together. Is this a bad sign?

A year into our relationship I started studying full-time and had to move in with my parents again as I could not work full-time anymore and could not afford rent. We made this decision for me to move in with my parents...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think that nice guys choose to be with women who "are not so nice" but hot looking just to cope with a bad past relationship?

I know that men and women choose to be with others for a variety of reasons, but I am talking about really nice guys who like serious relationships and maybe they have lost their trust to women, so they prefer to be with...

Nicki82

Xper 2 Age: 43