I wasn't the one who initiated the breakup tho. Been doing a lot of healing since then and I feel like I'm ready to start meeting new people.
Yeah. What are you just going to be lonely forever? You aren't together with the person you aren't with anymore. He does not control you.
Are you worried that he might be angry that you have found someone else that is possibly better then himself? Yeah many times they get super jealous since they see you have moved on and are with someone else and are not sad.
I think if you're ready to be dating again then you are free to do that. I get it. Sometimes some people need more time. But I say if you're ready go for it!
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It's okay if you think you're ready to date. The former relationship is over and you have every right to try to establish a new one. Enjoy your dates.
I’m almost in your situation I just got out of a serious relationship but I did the break up and I’m not ready to date like that. However if you feel ready you should and take it slow for your own emotional state, I know I am personally very emotionally vulnerable. If you feel doubts come up just be straight forward with any potential dates.
As long as you feel as though the next guy could be enough to help you forget about the last one, then yes.
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as long as it's not on the rebound, when your ready don't worry about what others may think, I met a boy on the rebound many years ago, we parted two weeks later,
Only you can answer this. Some people need a couple weeks some need a couple months. Once I needed a year. A ladyfriend I know it's been 6 months with her and she's still dealing with depression.
It depends upon the person. Some are ready quickly, others might take a year or longer.
Go for it!
Yes, it is ok. Go out and enjoy yourself!
If you have gotten over the break up
sure why would it not be
no but irdc lol
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