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Need a vibe check. Could a guy pull off this outfit?
I’ve been experimenting with my style lately and I’m really vibing with this specific look. I’m a gay guy and I’ve always leaned more towards feminine-leaning aesthetics, but I wanted to get a woman’s perspective on the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you prefer very structured events/trips or more go-with-the-flow?
Hi Guys and Gals, I host/attend a lot of events for work. They tend to be classy, structured things (even the low-key social ones). There's a dress code, specific goals (business/social/etc.) and the optics are always...
Mixed signals through text but in person very flirty?
So i've known this guy for a bit over a year, we got really close last year, lost contact then was at a tennis event together for 10days recently and hung out almost everyday as well as text everyday and got close again....
Anonymous
(18-24) 27 F single. I don’t have the desire to date anymore and don’t care if I find love. Is it okay I’m content with my life?
I (27 F) have been single for 2 years. This year 2026, will make 3 in the fall. My last long term relationship ended because my ex was a serial cheater and was using me for money sadly. We were together for almost 3 years...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever met/been with someone no one else compares to them?
I met someone and dealt with him for a year. It’s like we were together, but not really together. AnyWho, There were good times there were bad times. Now that we aren’t bothering with each other for almost months I can’t...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, You're out on a date... do you focus on enjoying the date or do you keep trying to chip away at the person to find their flaws?
I was on a date (hold the applause) and the guy kept asking questions as if it were a job interview, till finally I chuckled and asked, "Did you find it yet?" He asked, "Found what?" And I said, "The flaw you've...
How have you changed in the last ten to fifteen years?
I went from wanting the bad boy types in college to the nerdy looking guys. I went from being totally naive and insecure to confident and sure of myself. While some things are still a work in progress like my shyness...
What the F*ck is “Rizzing”?
Aaaaaaaaaaand ladies and gentlemen, we have a nother reason why social media is garbage that is bad for you. It’s called “rizzing.” And what the fuck exactly is “rizzing”? “Rizzing” is a stupid-sounding modern day...
Guys, My boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years for no apparent reason?
So genuinely it was so sudden it shocked me and everyone around us. Everyone was equally confused as me. One minute everything's fine, like making plans for our wedding one, going to his family's for Christmas, then one...
Anonymous
(25-29) Been away for well over a year. Has anything improved? Should I stay?
Hi guys, how's gag been the past year and a half? Did they fix anything? Make it better for people? I see there's an update soon. But things still look awfully quiet.
LovingJo
Xper 7 Age: 42 Showing up on the first date with an eczema outbreak?
I matched with this guy on a dating app a few days ago. We hit it off well chat wise so far, so we want to meet up preferably the upcoming weekend for low stakes coffee at a cafe. Only thing is: since about a week i have...
LovelyBones13
Xper 6 Age: 30 Why do I repeatedly experience betrayal from other women in friendships/& in family specifically involving them crossing boundaries with my partners?
Why do I keep experiencing betrayal from other women in friendships? Every time I’ve had female friendships, I’ve noticed a pattern where some of them crossed boundaries with my partners making a move such as flirting,...
Imsodun19
Xper 3 Age: 22 Should I let this TikTok creator know when I visit his restaurant?
There’s a TikTok guy I’ve watched on live for about 2 years. I’m 28, he’s 26. He doesn’t know what I look like. He uses TikTok to market himself and look for a spouse (common in our religious community). Culturally and...
Anonymous
(25-29) "How to Find Mr. Right" question for a young friend?
A young friend met up with me for dinner and insisted "I want to meet my husband this year." She was very depressed bc she's on all the apps (which she showed me and ZOWIE... I had NO IDEA there were SO MANY of them) and...
How easily do you befriend folks from the opposite gender? (More easily than folks from your gender)?
While it's always been easy for me to befriend guys regardless of the social/professional setting, yesterday was a funny little snapshot of how simple and quick it is. Leaving the party scene behind with the dust of 2025...
What should I do?
I’ve been talking to a guy he’s 22 I’m 25 he lives in Minnesota and I live in Chicago we haven’t met yet but he was being very sweet to me made me feeling thing I didn’t feel since leaving my 5 year toxic and abusive...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do girls on TikTok make videos of themselves bouncing their boobs?
Recently I posted, asking if Women liked it when guys looked at their cleavage. I get answers like, looking is ok but staring isn't. One thing I have noticed is there are a lot of women who go on places like TikTok,...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What is wrong with this woman?
We've known eachother for years. She's very attractive and I've never pursued her. In fact the whole reason were friends is because she asked me on a date and I told her we would make a terrible couple but great friends....
Why would he do this to me?
I really need opinions/support about this. So I went on a hinge date last week and it ended up being the best date of my entire life. Before the date, he was really intense over text saying: "you're probably the one" & "I...
izzie_morris
Xper 6 Age: 23 Guys, Why didn't he acknowledge me (just would like some outside perspective on the situation)?
For background: A few months ago, I developed feelings for a coworker. He gave me mixed signals that led me to believe he was somewhat interested in me too, and he could tell I liked him. Before I left the job, I gave him...
Annoyingly_ShyGirl
Xper 4 Age: 25 