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Someone Liking You Isn’t Always A Good Thing

We all want to be liked by somebody of the opposite sex, and it feels good when it happens. Particularly if it’s someone we find attractive and would be into. This is normal. But someone liking you or showing you interest...

ManOnFire

Influencer Age: 39

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Relationships

I hooked up with my coworker everything went fine but then she started to ghost me?

So I’m a guy and I don’t really know how this works but I need help. So I started working at this place 3 months ago And I could tell that my coworker was feeling me and I was feeling her, I know her cousin from a...

Drodman9110

Xper 2 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Would it be weird for guys if a girl that has a crush on them just randomly sent a message to them after not talking to each other for 2 months?

Well, I and my crush have known each other for approx. 3 year and a half and I have had a crush on him for a year. Things developed when we went to a camp together in Germany because I decided to confess. That night he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he continue texting me?

I met this guy on Instagram, I started following him because I thought he was hot, and he followed me back then sent a heart to me. We didn’t speak for a couple months, but one day I responded to his story, and we started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guy I use to be interested in is mad I started dating someone?

I've found myself in a weird situation that im super confused with... There was a guy lets call him Bob who was apart of the same group of friends. We all would hang as often as we could between busy work schedules. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

To all the men out there, wondering what women really want.

I've been asked to write something like this a few times by several different people so here goes. What I want in a man Everyone is different in what they are looking for. I can only say what I personally look for and...

Aerissa_Jade

Guru Age: 25

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Break Up & Divorce

I can't tell if I'm really toxic and crazy like my ex says I am. Or if she is just extremely manipulative?

So ever sense are break up my ex who is also the mother of my child has told me numerous times that she hates me. She has cuss me out called me names threaten to put hands on me at one point. And she has call me a...

youdontneedtono

Xper 6 Age: 33

Relationships

Guy I hooked up with turned out to be in a relationship. He wants to break up with her. Do you agree with me or with my friends perspective?

I met (f27) met this guy (m27) at a party a few weeks ago. I thought it was just a one night stand but we ended up having so much fun the next day and he asked my number. We’ve been texting all day everyday ever since....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Have you ever had feelings for someone else while you were in a relationship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Catfish victims are people too: Why I distrust the online dating platform.

Call the victims what you want. Stupid, naive, gullible. There I said it..... For what? Putting their heart in the right place with the right intentions? The level of online romance scams has been exponential since covid,...

BJP21

Yoda Age: 43

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Guy's Behavior

He’s ignoring me for a strange reason, what should I do?

I’ve been dating this guy for a little over a month. He and I have been sexually active and this is the first time I’m having sex with someone who isn’t my boyfriend, so I have anxiety after sex sometimes. I mainly have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Will we ever have a chance?

I remember in high school i always had a crush on this older guy, so when he went to university and i was still in school i messaged him anonymous on social media (pls dont judge me thats not the topic atm). I messaged...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Confused... Will he come back or is it over?

SO i was been seeing this guy who i ADORED for a bit. We were doing absolutely amazing. He would open doors for me (car door, house door, restaurant, etc). We did date nights once to twice a week. He would always make...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Does my friend have feelings for me or not?

Anonymous

(25-29)

I don’t think he does based off something that happened today, but I definitely have strong feelings for him. This is a long story so buckle in. I’ve been friends with this guy

I don’t think he does based off something that happened today, but I definitely have strong feelings for him.

This is a long story so buckle in.

I’ve been friends with this guy who’s almost 10 years older than me since I was 19. He went to back to college, and that’s how we met. We’ve always just been friends and never crossed any lines with each other and are part of the same group. He graduated 3 years ago and moved back to our hometown (turned out we’re from the same city), but we’ve stayed in touch and I see him almost every time I visit.

Last year we were hanging out and the topic eventually went to dating (not each other just in general). I described my perfect guy and he said something like, “oh like how we do?” And that’s the moment the light bulb clicked in my head. Ever since then I’ve been developing feelings for him. I felt like he wasn’t returning my feelings, so I backed off to try and readjust my emotions.

A couple months ago, he called me out the blue and we’ve been texting/calling/watching shows through zoom together practically every day the last few weeks. My feelings for him are back and are definitely getting stronger. I’m not sure how he feels. It’s like he’s hot and he’s cold, he’s definitely sending mixed signals. He’s asked me what my plans for grad school are, wanted to know if I’d move out of state to go to the same school as him, stays on the phone with me while I share my location while in traffic, etc. In a show we watched recently, they were talking about date ideas and he kept telling me he wanted to take me to those places, so I started to feel like he might feel the same as me. Today I finally had enough of wondering and texted him that I’m wanting his attention more and more, and he deflected it and made a joke.

When we met 8 years ago, I was just a kid and he was pushing 30. I’m worried he still thinks of me as a kid and doesn’t see me as the woman I’ve grown into.

Is he just a good friend? Does he want more? What do I do?

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Dating

A good first date leads to a good second date: some advice and suggestions

This MyTake was inspired by a question recently posted by @AnnaTumbles: What first date tips do you wish everyone knew? First, why is a 67 year-old dude giving advice about dating? Because I have been dating, or in...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Society & Politics

How America Creates A Toxic Social Culture

And it honestly is the reason why I only have a very select few, close friends and I keep my circle small on purpose. Even on social media I have under a hundred followers, who the majority of which are people I already...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Other

Blowing Off Steam, Reflecting on GAG Feedback, and Thinking About Life

So, this is my post-reflection from the feedback I got from GirlsAskGuys users. What would you say I need to work on or improve about myself and personality? I appreciate most of the answers. It's 2am and I'm...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Girl's Behavior

Girls, I think I offended a girl I'm interested in. What should I do?

I started my freshman year in college a couple weeks ago and I started talking to this girl, we'll call her Amy. Amy and I have been talking over text every day, getting to know one another, and we've gone out to lunch...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Lost interest? Strung along?

Me and this guy I previously knew connected online. For about 6 months we hung out heaps, crashed at each other's places, met some of each other's friends, obviously we're sexual. He said while we were hooking up I wasn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Saying to a guy I like him, but we don’t really talk?

So there is this guy in my world history class, we texted once, but it ended up that he would take hours to reply back to me when at the time it took him seconds to a few minutes. I’m thinking of just texting him saying,...

itzbbella

Xper 3 Age: 20