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Do you think most people's romantic "love" to each other is based on superficial conditional things first (height, money, good looks in men, or hot body in women)?

Or is it that most people who end up in long term relationships are "truly meant for each other" and would've found each other, regardless of looks, height, social status, age, etc?

Notice I said MOST (60 to 90% of people), not all. Obviously, my answer is no. I'm physically unattractive and have literally nothing going for me in looks/physical, so I can confirm that "personality alone" isn't enough to make "love happen."

But that's just what I think. What do you think?

Inspired by this question here.

1) I’m short. Only 5’10”

2) I don’t have a big penis. Only 6”

3) I’m not rich. I’m a college student.

4) I’m reserved. I’ve only had about 2-3 close friends at any one time. And I don’t go out and do things that often with other people. Prefer to just “chill out” on most days.

5) Very family oriented and have long term goals of marriage and children.

6) I’m not really that muscular or anything. I just look like an average run-of-the-mill type guy.

7) I always try to dress decently and look nice, but I don’t necessarily happen to turn every head in the room either and have girls flirting with me.

8) I don’t believe in having premarital sex. Just not something I feel comfortable with doing. Marriage is definitely the ideal time for me.

9) I go to church every week and I don’t believe in abortions or birth control. I believe in being responsible and trusting in God’s plan even when its difficult.

10) I don’t support the LGBTQ community or believe in any sort of woke BS relating to BLM. Such types piss me off.

11) I’m proud to be a white male and I feel no shame in being one and do not feel a personal responsibility to apologize to other people for it.

12) My ideal woman is someone who’s romantic and affectionate and actually thoughtful and grateful towards me. Not someone who just demands things and expects them from me.

Anyways. Do I actually stand a chance?

I am turning 28 in a few months, of course nearing my 30s, and I never had a real girlfriend before. I had some online things, but they all rejected me upon meeting in person for the first time. Meanwhile, I have watched all my former friends form serious relationships, get married, and most of them have kids now.

I am not the most attractive guy physically. I am short and overweight I admit. I am also "weird" to a lot of people. I am on the Autistic Spectrum and have mental health issues too.

I haven't touched a girl since I was 20 (back in June 2015). I lost my virginity then to a 16 year old girl who was supposedly a virgin too at the time. I have only had sex exactly once in my lifetime. I have never actually "made love".

It saddens me because all my life I always wanted to have a girlfriend, wife, and kids of my own.

Really, I am seeking a decently attractive woman without a romantic past, but my days are numbered finding that I feel. That is a deal breaker to me. I feel I would be lucky to even find a good woman who has never been married at this point