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That video: Photoshop being abused. Old news on my end. In selfies, I pretty much only use Photoshop to remove zits and other temporary injuries from the shot. It's no longer worth it to fix my jowels to look younger or less bulldog-like. Keeping my hair long for longer and growing a goatee seems to help me look better as I age.
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While it would be great to acknowledge that everyone is beautiful, it is not reality. There are certain things that people will find beautiful and others not. No matter how much guilt or "inspiration" you try to push out onto society, people are going to want what they want. That is the consequence of free will.
Everybody deserves love.
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yeah society has a strong influence on most people, sadly because most people are dumb enough to be influenced by society lol, especially when shit doesn't make sense.
Not being white doesn't mean you're never going to find love. And it's not like being white makes you exempt from feeling the need to fix your imperfections. This take is, in my opinion, somewhat of an attack on white people. People don't get to choose the skin color they're born with, be it white, black, brown, etc.
So lets ignore the fact that I said beauty changes over time and I was only giving one of the many examples.
Lets ignore the fact that there's a white woman in the video at the end. I swear people see only what they want to see
Let's also ignored there's a picture of a white little boy crying which further shows that I'm talking about any race.
Yes it shows your targeting whites in this
You you can choose to ignore that I put white people in this ad. I do not care that is your own ignorance you are blinded by. Have a great day victim
This my take I very true and logical, it has effected many people of all ages and especially young people and some guys on here are being pretty bitter about it, probly either they think they are hot or just have low self-esteem.
You can see yourself as beautiful as much as you want, but other people will still see you the same way, so don't go expecting the hottest girls/guys to date you when you're not that good looking. Just because you think you are good looking, doesn't mean that you are good looking. This whole take is a joke.
No your comment is a joke and one of hate. My goal here is to uplift those who constantly beat themselves up. You're free to spread your ugly but don't do it here.
He does have a point. There are some women out there who are ugly inside-and-out, but have an inflated opinion of themselves and are completely delusional. I've met them. When they misinterpret something you do or say that has nothing to do with them, make it about them, hijack your conversation, and go on a quest to "avenge" whatever they imagine you've offended, that's when you know real hate.
@ObscuredBeyond If I knew an 'attractive' male or female who's a terrible, ugly person (inside), they wouldn't appear attractive to me.
@mynameislana : You've never been attacked by an offline SJW at Bond Hall at Ferris. The type who forget that the word "thug" originally referred to Hindu Kaleh worshipers who became assassins, and the term later referred to Sicilian mobsters, and think when you say "thug movie," that you're attacking blacks. And refuse to let you get one word in to educate them about history or etymology. Instead, they shout over you, call you "ignorant" (the irony!,) make everything about black-white race-relations, preach to you, have their friends form a circle around you so you can't leave, accuse, have others ask accusing questions, not let you answer, and then throw something about their self-image into the picture as well. Twist your words. Put words in your mouth that weren't there.
And the pro-gay SJWs are even more rabid, and make allegations about your religious leanings and then attack you over them before you have a chance to correct their assumptions. Nasty folk.
So being honest is hateful? What the fuck is wrong with this generation. Pussies eveeywhere.
Women should just boycott fashion magazines and stuff like that.
The equivalent of "God made you special in your own little way"
Except I didn't expect that adults had to tell each other it every day
Sometimes to have to build others up , no matter how old they are. Life has a way of knocking even the greatest of all people down.
*Sometimes we have to
I get that people want be cared for and assured, but they're just so fragile about it.
I you think about it society sets the standards for most things from how a family/relationships/sex/house/morals/parents/clothes should be. It makes sense as really as its nearly all of our inspiration for things other than nature maybe. In a logical sense it makes sense for society to set the standards for beauty as it does everything. Sorry about that. Kinda sucks..
You're right.
The thing is, society can have positives influences but also those that are detrimental.
Well i agree with the title but thats it , of course the society decides , people look at you and decide if you are attractive to them or not , who else is gonna decide? its the others who decide if you're beautiful
in my opinion beauty dont have a color just like love doesn't there's beautiful people abd sexy people of all race and color were all are gods children this colorism and racism is man made stuff its all childish and dumb
"You Are Unattractive Because Society Says You Are"
WRONG!
You are unattractive because no one wants to fuck you!
This is why i never buy Magazines. They're toxic as fuck. Billboards, i can't avoid. But Magazines i can.
Do you watch TV on a regular basis?
Some people actually are just plain unattractive though so you can't blame someone being ugly on society.
Some people are but the media further perpetuates that.
That black girl in the picture is really attractive though. Society doesn't see that as unattractive surely.
@Sexualchrist
If you have an idea about who's attractive and who's unattractive, you got it from society, not from the Flying Spaghetti Monster.
@jacquesvol I get it more from my eyes, my brain and my hormones, don't know about everyone else
@Sexualchrist the standards you apply to judge attractiveness are those from the society you're living in. 16th century standards were rejected at other moments. 1940 standards don't apply today.
Audrey Hepburn wouldn't be a success in 2016.
The Three Graces by Rubens would be rejected today
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This too would be rejected today:
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@jacquesvol speak for yourself because I don't always find the stereotypes attractive. I like what I like, doesn't matter if society agrees or not
@jacquesvol Not true, there's lots of amputee porn lol
I'm never going to think I'm beautiful unless I'm wearing what most men and a lot of women will say "too much makeup" and until I lose 50lbs.
Media aside, I'm honestly ugly.
its okay hun we can be ugly together
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It's fine to like yourself. But if your like me and society sees you as unattractive, and your all alone, suddenly the world is a very dark and lonely place whether I believe I'm unattractive or not.
Its obvious in the work place. The boss picks the finest looking girl..
what a shitty boss :P
I agree with this. I'm glad this wasn't another fat worshiping take.
In my case, I am ugly and no amount of logic is going to change that.
But generally speaking, Indian men are universally considered ugly and unattractive to all women.
So yeah. Its society.