I my ex broke up with me a little over a month age, the week we broke up he had another girl at his house. I was furious and upset and I cried for over a month everyday because I miss him so much. But him moving on is a way to get past his feelings for you. Just because he did move on so soon does not mean that what you guys had was meaningless, it just wasn't right for the both of you at the time. Grant it, I still really miss my ex, but ,knowing that he has moved on helps with the fact that I also need to move on. Men throughout all generations of time have always found comfort in having a women around whether it be in a relationship or just for sex. My ex had told me that he missed being able to just be around other women and having them just hang out at his house because it makes a man feel better about himself if he is surrounded by women who like him either as a friend or something a little bit more.
I have talked to my ex since we broke up and have seen him quite few times. I told him that I knew he moved on and I was ok with it and accepted that I just wasn't the one for him and he started to cry (now this guy, I was with him for 3 years and his mother had told me that she has never seen him cry ever unless it was because of a death) he told me that he really did care about me a whole bunch and misses me a lot but things just weren't where they needed to be in his life. He really still cares for me and cared a lot about our relationship but being able to get another girl means that he hasn't lost himself.
Hunny I wish I new this answer. I wouldn't be going through the hell that I am going through also. I know how hard it must be but the only thing I can say is to not concentrate on it. Start getting your self busy. Goto the gym get a new job. Maybe get ur self a new place to live start all over. Anyway you keep yourself busy the best it is. That's what I have learned and don't stew over it it will eat you up inside. I cried for about two weeks and realized that I deserved better and I got my crap together. Think about the things that you need to start doing for yourself to improve the old you. Out with the old in with the new. If he loves you he will be back.
Its not just guys my ex and I went out for 2 1/2 years and we broke up and the next week she went out with someone new. She did the same thing told me she misses me loves me talks to my family members emailed me EVERYDAY called me once a month. Then 4 months later I called her out and it just makes it easier on them they don't feel that bad if they keep you close and if they talk to you they won't miss you and so they don't want to see you. So stop talking to him I know its hard believe me I still would die for this girl. It doesn't mean your relationship is meaningless I hope I mean did you learn something from this. I found this time to really find myself I got all new friends and just been trying everything new. So if it helps try getting some new friends find what makes you happy and not both of you.
Missing the girl that got away is very tough on a guy. Not having emotional support of a woman leads men to feel empty and lonely. Assuming he's a good guy, the relationship was NOT meaningless to him. If he tells everyone he still loves you and misses you, then you know it's true.
I can relate to this guy. I got out of a two year relationship (she left me) and was yearning to fill the emptiness left by my ex. Needless to say that the best way to get over a woman is to get another one. But what do I know, I'm Just A Random Guy.
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No. Your relationship probably meant a lot to him. American society likes to train men to isolate their emotions, or to sever them instead of expressing how they feel. As a result we can "move on" with relative ease, but that doesn't mean we don't feel emotions.
I know I am able to cut off my emotional ties with someone at the drop of the hat, but I don't enjoy having to do so. It's a protective measure in some sense as well, blocking out the emotions that are bringing you down. Well, it's not really fair for me to say it's a "guy only" ability. There are women who attempt to wash their hands clean of a guy and pretend like nothing ever took place. Everyone who does this is most likely still hurting a little inside.
To him, it possibly was. But not all guys are like that, I think you're better off away from this guy.
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