Girl not reciprocating your advances!

[ferero]

Hey guys/girls...I met this girl online and after we exchanged a few emails we decided to meet for coffee. We met, and everything went well...she looked much hotter in person than she did on her profile. She seemed interested in me. After the first date I texted her and we decided to hit the clubs. All went well. We made out in the car and at my place. I even cooked her dinner the first time she came over to my place. We watched a movie together, while cuddling in the couch. After the movie we had a 6mins make out session, and I wanted to take it to the next level (the bedroom), and she objected. Her excuse was "it's getting late and I need to head home". Two weeks after that, I texted her again, asking how was her day and stuff...but I noticed that during this time I was the one making the first initiative. She NEVER texts me to see how am doing and how my day went and stuff. It's usually I. Since that time whenever I text her asking to hangout, she always agrees but when the date is over and its time for a good night kiss she's kinda reluctant and backs off a little bit while I go in for the kiss. DOES THIS GIRL REALLY LIKE ME? Is she just looking for a friendship or what? I am confused because two weeks go by and she NEVER texts or calls to see how am doing. That's what bothers me.

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+1 y

this girl is so f**kin hot and sexy. she turns me on every time I say her!

[bobair]

If she's willing to get together for a date, then she's definitely interested.

You have two options:

1) Take it slow.

I suspect she fears that any make out with you will turn into sex - mostly because you've shown her that you're a horny little man who thinks making out for 6 minutes equals sex. It doesn't.

Date her, but learn to escalate the physical touch slowly. Sex requires trust, and right now she's showing you that she doesn't trust you. She needs to learn that you can be sexual with her (kissing for example) without it committing her into your bed. This means slowing down, holding hands, cuddling, etc WITHOUT you trying to hump her leg.

2) Date someone who's more your sexual speed. There's plenty of girls who're just looking to hook up. Meet them, date them, satisfy them in the bedroom.

I totally wish you the breast of luck!

~ Robby

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[kittenkiss]

You stated an obvious change in her reaction when you introduced the possiblity of sex. Since that time, she seems reluctant even for a good night kiss. If you like this woman, you should consider assuring her that you DO like her and I would suggest you take the sex off the table for now. Let her know that it won't go there and that you are interested in being with her and having her company.

[bestdest]

she likes you. otherwise she wouldn't be hanging out with you still. I think she just doesn't wanna move to fast. and only 2 weeks is definitly too fast to be doing more sexual things. and as for her not texting you first. girls like it when guys text first. but just take things slow and give it time