How soon is too soon to add a guy you slept with on Facebook?

[haleygirl]

I met him at a party, and we really connected I thought. it wasn't like the "i wanna sleep with you so ill seem into you" kinda thing but like he was interested. we talked a lot and then that night we ended up watching a movie which led to making out and then sleeping together. I feel like I initiated a lot of it like he didn't want to force me and he was really into it. the next morning he was really sweet and did stuff like putting his arm around me and kissing me on my head and stuff. when he took me home he actually parked, then kissed me goodbye and we had a lingering hug. he then asked for my number and made sure I made to my door before he left. its been two days and I haven't heard from him yet. would it be weird or too soon to add him on Facebook, I've already added some of the other guys I talked to at that party who are his friends.

[sonic241928]

I'd say either call him up, or if you're uncomfortable with that, wait for him to call you, before attempting to add him on Facebook. Just because things can be awkward after that one night, and so much can be misinterpreted--you should know what his intentions and feelings toward you are. (For example, for him it might have been just a one-night thing, and you don't want to get your feelings hurt if he ignores your Facebook friend request. Seeing the request might put too much pressure on him, where he might be more receptive to adding you after you've had some more contact.)

In terms of clear communication, in person is best, over the phone is second, and email/FB/texting is last, so if you can't see him in person, speaking over the phone is your next best bet. The point is to make sure he still wants to be in touch with you first. Best of luck.