What if he doesn't smile back!?

[GreenDogg6]

I'm a girl in high school. I'm kind of invisible at school, I have a small group of friends, and I'm really quiet and shy. I have a huge crush on a really popular, outgoing guy in my history class but we have never talked before. Its his last year of school and I'm running out of time to try and get him to notice me. I know I'm hot so that's not the problem. My friends tell me next time I see him in the hall to smile and wave at him. The thing is, what should I do if I smile at him and he either looks away, or if he makes a weird face and seems disgusted? How can I face the embarrassment of returning to my history class where I sit alone and he sits with a huge group of people?

[Anonymous]

Don't be so pessimistic. You said you know you're hot, so act it and be more confident in yourself! :) And don't just smile and wave at him, when you see him say, "Hi, _his name here_!" (and the smile) I don't mean shout it across the hallway or classroom but if you walk by him or if he's walking by just smile and say hello and make sure to say it with confidence! When you see him at class try to make eye contact and smile/wave!

If he's anything worth being interested in he won't make a weird face or look disgusted, after all you ARE HOT! Right? If he doesn't even bother to give you a friendly smile or acknowledge a greeting from you then he doesn't seem like the kind of guy a girl deserves. Looking away or pretending not to notice may not be a negative indicator either. He may just be a little confused/shocked that you would suddenly be saying hello out of the blue since you never talk and its just a defensive reflex so he can have time to process it in his head. (like taking a step back to look at a situation) Just keep it up and after a few times if he doesn't bother to return the smile/wave/greeting then its a pretty good sign he's not interested or worth your time since a nice guy would at least try to be friendly even if he's not interested.

Best of luck! And just remember this, you are a HOT so be confident! Don't worry if it doesn't work out and DON'T be embarrassed, hold your head high and be proud that you had the guts to take a step in overcoming your shyness! :D

[ambishis]

i agree with anonymous, if you are hot then show it, be nice to him, make him notice you, and if he doesn't? well then he's missing out, 2 bad for him