Old roommate used a guy to get knocked up on purpose? Should I tell him what she did? (Page 2)
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Naw, this is one of those you stay out of. Way too far off the deep end.
If you tell the dad she will hate the shit out of you. But he should know.
That girl is human garbage by the way.
what would you do if you were the guy? would you hurt her if you found out?
I wouldn't hurt her. I'm no savage. I'd ignore her but judging from how opportunistic this witch is, I'd thank you and move to another state. And probably change my name so that bitch wouldn't slap me with child support.
You'd let him know by telling him through Facebook or something like that.
So you wouldn't want to see the kid
I would but seeing that the mom is willing to get pregnant just to live off the government I'd be terrified to let her know that I know because she'll slap me with child support.
Not really. If she wanted she'd tell him right off the bat. Why wait? The reason she isn't telling him is because she doesn't want anything from him or his involvement.
But if i was the guy and I knew about it I'd have the option to get up and go. What would happen if she changes her mind or gets into financial problems in the future. The poor sap would be just sitting there waiting to get hit with child support. It's always an option for her later down the line. You never know what situation you'd be in a year from now.
You do know child support mainly goes to help the kid right. Kids are expensive. So if you actually cared about the child (which I doubt) you wouldn't mind helping it. Instead you rather just let it live in poverty with its mother.
Yes that's so fucked up
I wonder if I do tell him what he'll do to her. Do you think he'd hurt her? I don't want anything bad to happen to her
I doubt he'd hurt her but I have no doubt he would be incredibly pissed that she was trying to have his kid without him. He deserves to know.
Wouldn't most guys not want involvement with the kid anyway?
Hey can you do me a favor and tag other people you follow to come give their opinion. I'm still undecided.
Maybe but he has the right to choose
What would you do in this situation?
What a whore! Disgusting... 😒
if you were in this situation what would you do?
In which situation? Her situation?
I would say that the dad should definitely know...
But what if you were the guy she tricked what would you do?
I would expose her behavior... Like her plan to get money from government... Then I would let the concerned authorities know about it... And if possible... Get her arrested for sure
what about the baby
I don't know lol
Shouldn't this be illegal?
It would be immoral if you didn't tell him. He shouldn't have to be forced into paying child support for someone so manipulative.
I don't think she wants child support. I think she wants to raise it on her own
"She's used a guy to get pregnant so she could get money from the government. "
That, more often than not, results in child payment on the father's part.
But what if she says she doesn't know who the dad is?
Hey can you do me a favor and tag other people you follow to come give their opinion. I'm still undecided.
Tell him, she had it coming.
What would you do if you were the guy in this situation? Would you want to know? How would you react?
I would definitely wanna know, its my kid as much as its hers, i might not get involved in the kid's life but i have the right to know.
If you don't want any involvement then your basically just a sperm donor, so by that logic you have no right to know
Its not your place to say anything