Have you ever tried to "unghost" yourself?

[scooogy]

Have you ever tried to find the one who ghosted you and ask them why? I tried that with two girls. The one told me creepy because I contacted friends to ask them what was wrong with that girl.
The other called me a stalker because I had tried to talk to friends of hers.

Is that normal? I mean, ghosting someone is just as rude in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

If someone ghost you it is indeed creepy to ask why because you already had the answer!! Ghosting means not interested. If you want to know more reasons why then you should men up.
I think ghosting is bad too I have never done it ; it happened to me once but as I said I had no reason to ask because I knew he was not interested and I didn't want to drag it it's worthless, people whonghist are childish so yeah don't worry too much

[scooogy]

The one girl kept being around me, and when we saw each other again around friends after months (!) I manned up and talked to her, she said she wondered why I suddenly disappeared as soon as I saw her, because I couldn't deal with the situation and needed to think first. Then we talked, we agreed to having contact again, which she didn't stick to though.

And the other girl behaved similary, because she kept being around me, and always staring at me (staring as in looking at me far longer than strangers), even though I asked her to stop that, multiple times. And she always claimed having a boyfriend and not looking at me intentionally. Sure. Once when I walked along and saw her coming around the corner, I just kept my eyes straight on, watching her from the corner of my eye. Now guess: Right before she passed by, she couldn't help but look at me again, nervously in that case. Explanation please.

[aheartofthesunrise]

It’s rude but that’s just how people are today, no consideration or decency.

I’ll always let people know straight if I don’t want to talk to them or I don’t care what they are talking about.

That’s called respect.

[scooogy]

Amen.

[aheartofthesunrise]

OP, don’t listen to any of the bullshit anyone else below is going to try to spew. If you’re not interested and don’t want to talk to someone anymore you let them know, that’s called maturity and not being a sack of s***

[JosyJosy]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

nope