Why does society judge men when they cry? (Page 2)
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This might sound wrong. But my heart melts when I see a man cry. I feel so happy that they allow themself to cry. But I also feel sorry for them so I start crying too. I'm an emotional mess
I think society teaching men not to cry is the main reason some of them become so emotionally unattached and cold. They can cry obviously because sometimes you just gotta
It is because we are supposed to be these tough guardian angels in peoples eyes and many perceive it as us being weak when we cry
None judges man when they cry. Its more than normal. I think only man have a problem with showing their own feeling as they think someone will judge.
Because the conservative view of the world is one of stereotypes and according to them men should not cry. All there is to it really.
Because men are supposed to be strong & protective, not emotional & weak.
That's what society thinks, and what some men themselves think.
Society would judge anything... Society is the furtherest from a good judge of anything... If society usually says something is the norm or ok, usually go in the opposite direction.. because it's usually wrong.
Men crying is the same as them showing weakness. Men are largely society's tools, and a man in trouble isn't very useful to anybody else.
So we hide our tears to portray that we're strong. In reality the man who doesn't worry about his strength being questioned is stronger. In my opinion.. so many of us look for justification that we're "manly"
Well said man
Thanks
Cause we have created a myth that guy can only stay strong
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Probably cause of the macho culture around is. When younger kids will say that boys don't cry and if you do, there's a chance that you'll get bullied. this ridiculous argument often gets tossed when people get older though, but by that time, that opinion is ingrained in your head...
This idea that men cannot be weak. Since my dad was a massive crier it's never really phased me.
I have friends who also judge me for crying then I told them "if we can't cry then we are not humans but monsters" then they shut up
True
A man who would resist crying over his loss just to appear strong is weaker than a man crying over it.
Todays world see's men as robots basically (when it comes to emotion's) "they are supposed to be the big bad tough guys with no feelings. Unfortunately they are wrong.
Because as a man you should be the strong one, who else will be if you are not?
In general, crying is a sign of weakness. Males are supposed to be strong with little to no weaknesses.
I think it's ridiculous to have that point of view.
Some women are judged when they cry. My sister who is the youngest the family judge her when she cries. people judge her when she cries she was expected to be tough all the time. i guess it can go both ways.
It less the people who judge and the fact that those who don't judge have no idea how to deal with a crying man. Which makes the whole thing pointless and embarrassing.
Because only men can be judged by society; no women should ever be judged by society for anything she says or does. Didn't you get the feminist memo?
*Did I say men? Sorry, I meant cis-hetero white men. Silly me