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I have no way of knowing if this is true. But I do think our education system is designed to discourage independent thought and encourage conformity. Media does the same thing. It tells people what to think rather than providing information with which they can formulate independent opinions. And society has worked steadily to discourage independence by preventing kids from playing, exploring, taking risks, learning lessons and being free of 24/7 monitoring. The excuse is to make everything safe. But the result is, dependence.
So it's no wonder if today's adults are less confident, more fearful and dependent. and more childlike in their petulant insistence on having things their way. Instead of pursuing their own independence and happiness, they expect the whole world to comply with their desires.
I'm thinking of aversion to "trigger words" and a need for "safe spaces", for example. There is also the desire to have Big Brother keep them safe, which has led to more and more acceptance of authoritarianism. I actually think that has been the goal of certain elites for over 100 years. There's a reason why J. D. Rockefeller took control over our medical and educational systems years ago. The last thing elites want is educated, independent citizens making decisions about their own lives.
"An educated citizenry is a vital requisite for our survival as a free people." - Thomas Jefferson
I really think you must have cameras on me as below is how I am dressed today... :)
Hell yes I voted for "oh God yes, I agree"... think it's still a small minority but it is growing and their loudness makes it seem like there is more of them... especially with social media amplification.
As I think you know lol, I'm in my early 50's and enjoy being sophomoric during fun time BUT BUT BUT big difference between that and being a baby about life and throwing worse-than-a-small-child temper tantrums over stuff grown-ups should simply be able to deal with... grow the F up already :)
Love your answer!!! As always, To me, already superb opinion without prostituting for it 😂😂😂😂 Abd love love the pic...😂
I think I need to start having you find the pics for my posts, as good as I think the ones I find are, yours are always better 😂
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There's being a child, then there's being an immature adult.
Before the mid20s, human brains are still actually developing. In fact, frontal lobe regions that govern "executive function" like planning, working memory, and impulse control can take until halfway through the third decade of life to fully form.
Source: https://www. ncbi. nlm. nih. gov/pmc/articles/PMC2892678/
So, kids and teens literally do not have the capacity in some cases to function at an "adult" level.
We're also seeing a shift in what "adult" means. Many markers of adulthood (marriage, kids, homeownership) are being pushed back - sometimes out of necessity (e. g. younger generations holding less and less wealth compared to older generations at their age) and sometimes out of cultural shifts (marriage and childbearing ages continue to get older on average).
Things that used to be "kids only" like video games or social media (because the tech was new and younger people adopted it much faster than older people) are now well-liked and used by legal aged adults.
At the same time, we're seeing older generations falling for misinformation on social media and acting out emotionally online and in the real world where they were more reserved previously.
It's hard to say. There's a lot of shifting contexts.
It depends ultimately on what you mean by "childish" and "adult".
I see teenagers and young adults both IRL and on here that behave better and act more mature/responsible than some that are in their 30's-40's...
I agree there, but I think it's foolish to paint all 30-40 year olds with the same brush.
Now where did I do that-read again I said some not all... You do know the difference right? Some means some act that way... If I meant all, then I wouldn't of said SOME...
Nowhere in your question did you say "some". You said "more and more" and the examples you provided in form of meme are all generalized.
If you have an issue with the way I word things, you simply don't have to read/reply.. But please don't try to trust my words... More and more didn't include a specific age group now did it? Nor did my memes... You the one that brought a specific she into it...
But okay, you just want to seem to argue anything I say... 🤷🏼♀️
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*age not she
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I agree, as a child I see both republicans and democrats bickering like 5 year olds. It's frustrating to watch because it's all of you who actually get to vote. But no all you wanna do is at like toddlers and argue without proving any valid points. Us kids see you acting like this and y'all wonder why we have no hope, y'all wonder why we have no hope in humanity and in your generations. Because all you do is argue without getting anywhere.
Very well said young lady 👍 wish more adults would 1- have the mindset you do and 2- listen to what you just said, to many adults forget or just don't care that they are supposed to be a role model for our youth, our future generations, You can't just tell children how to behave, you have to show them how to behave with your own behavior and actions! Again, great great reply here... People read, listen, and take to heart this answer!!!
Probably someone else cuz I don't discuss politics for the most part on here.. And I don't consider myself Democrat or Republican... I don't support Trump or Biden
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I believe the socio-economic situations have caused ever increasing stress levels, and that the pandemic, subsequent lockdowns, and further economic depression broke the common facade people create in order to function in society.
Adults are only disciplined to act as they do, and once that discipline is broken, usually by over-stimulation of some type (usually negative) they will act as they did when children. The human brain doesn't necessarily change entirely. It adapts, but the basic function remains as the foundation.
I think the divisiveness of politics and lack of distractions has caused people to realize more of their surroundings, and they've become critical, bitter, and depressed. That's a recipe for disaster.
Is it generational? Each generation will try to improve upon the previous, and as long as we accept that we do not live for ourselves, but for others, that makes life a little easier. However, our society functions from a perspective of greed and profit; the more the better. I'm rambling.
I'm not sure. I think social media has given stupid adults a louder voice when they would have normally been tuned out, but they have now become the loudest people on the internet and news and so I think it is partly just a matter of visibility. We give adult children a lot of attention in our society for some reason, but the ones who are still being adults are quietly going about their business. There are a lot of them, they just aren't as obvious and in your face.
I think there also may be a shift in perspectives in some of the younger generations. Life isn't like it was for the boomers, despite what they told their children, so there comes a time when people realize that just getting a degree gets you nowhere and you aren't special and will likely not be able to follow your wildest dreams if you just 'try' hard enough. So I think there are those that adapt, and there are those that rebel in silly childish ways.
Great answer! Well said! Agree 💯+here
not more and i see them more frequently now days or they are really spreading
anyhow and yes adults even those who are 30+ or 40+ acting like teenagers its ridiculous very immature and irresponsible just like a 12 year olds
they always act like they are the smartest and best humans on earth but they can function without their phones, drive like idiots and curse more than Al Pacino like its a cool thing that they can curse so much and the way they communicate with others even a toddler has a better communication than they do.
it feels i have a lot to get of my chest :P
Get it off! Lol I hear yah! And everything you just said is so dead on! 💯 Like you took the words right out of my mouth 😂
I agree wholeheartedly.
Society is constantly making it worse - on both ends. Kids being on parents' medical plan until 26! 14 year-old girls allowed to get abortions without parental input. Adults allowed to act like teenage thugs and gangsters, burning buildings, shooting up cars, destroying others' livelihoods with no consequence.
Kids should be kids - adults should be adults!
When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 1 Cor 13:11
Omg right!!! All very valid points... Maybe that's what's draining my energy... Cuz tired and sick in my soul of the way the world is becoming.. I don't worry for me as much as my daughters and grandson and what kind of F'd up world they'll be living in if things don't change for the better... Don't try to start a race war or gender war when IT SHOULD BE a war on crime and criminals...
Aw- that would tick off the media! They've spent all that air-time making wrong look "allowed" for whatever reason, and right look mundane, silly and passe.
You just said it there! Exactly!
I agree but people who are younger now. Say younger than me, people around 25ish could potentially live longer because of advances in science so they might not have to grow up as fast. We are starting to see signs of this particularly in elite sport. For example Rafael Nadal just won a 13th French open championship aged 34 years old and he doesn't look like slowing down. That is because of sport science. It has enabled him to play better and more efficiently for longer. 15 years ago, 34 was clear retirement age for that profession. Food for thought.
What does lining longer have to do with childish behavior? Our not being a responsible person?
I think it lets one get away with a bit more procrastination but it should be seen as more of an opportunity to work harder younger son one could enjoy life for longer and into an older age. Unfortunately society now accepts 45 year olds to play video games and wear batman T-shirts. So that is creating a resistance where we should be seeing improvement. It's because of the level and variety of media access we now have. Not only are nerds cool now but dorks are too so young people are being let astray.
Loads of people like that nowadays, they all want to party and have fun and no responsibilities, was talking to a girl at uni who said they blew £11k in one year drinking practically every night, so much so that she failed first year and had to borrow money off of her ma to pay rent as she blew it, this was after working for 2 years to gain that and was money from her inheritance along with the loan we all get. I was so astonished
Yeah that's crazy!!
the only way they will ever learn is if we make them suffer. her mom shouldn't have loaned her money
Yes and no.
For me, an aim is to never be too grown up. To put away Looney tunes for example and say that's for kids. I still enjoy that stuff. But to be selfish and say I want that or to throw a for or tantrum when something does not go my way, there is no place for that for sure and those might be showing up in different ways...
I think we as a culture have to be careful to remember that we are all fellow passengers to the grave. We all need to treat each other with kindness, dignity and respect of which I think we all don't fully display that in modern times as much as we should
Yup. Millennials were bad enough before politics played an equation, and now, most of them are insufferable. (Don't call ME a "millennial." I don't count.) Even Zoomers; those born from 1997 to 2012, are more mature and rational than the average Millennials, even on this very site!
By the way, Trump 2020. ;)
I think it's happening in all agree groups... Think the internet and social media and other public lack of decent role models is part of the issue...
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True. If I were to go conspiracy theorist, I'd suggest this is all designed to keep s fighting each other while the Powers That Be gain even more wealth, dominance, and social power for themselves. Most of this disharmony and fighting may come from politics, but the mainstream media is fueling it, like the BS with George Floyd, and literally making up fake news. CNN and other media organizations are too relatively small to profit off of this (since nothing that isn't a public office, hospital, or bank will ever have CNN on), but the ones who own CNN are probably making a killing while people are too busy killing each other due to political BS.
@mcheetah... It's not a conspiracy , what you have stated is the truth... it's there in plain sight , deliberately corrosive toxic social engineering at work.
Oh god yes. I have baby-dults co-workers that got verbal warning from me and our boss and they did behave well for two days and then kept doing the same shit after that so warned them again, they didn't care. They got shut off from work for a week, no pay, started complaining like babies. This is one of MANY MANY other stories.
Oh I hear you 💯
In the last past year I feel like everyone is changing I walk in to a store and I see the parent having a melt down I watch grown adults stomping there feet because there not getting there way to watch the body drama of a grown adult having the same throw myself on the ground and cry makes me laugh do fucking hard I all most pissed my pants
It's down to the individuals place and how they use themselves with in the community Insecurity is one of the main reasons to want to be imature crying out to be looked after Making ther partner feel like mother rather than a partner
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Judging by some of the idiotic questions, and comments/opinions that regularly appear here from so-called adults, this might just actually have a ring of truth in it.
RIGHT! Your 8 month old is probably better behaved as some these people 🤣🤣
Maybe they need to be breastfed, couldn't talk as much shit with a tit in their mouth 🤣🤣🤣
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@Brainsbeforebeauty LMAO 🤣🤣🤣
Whew lol after I hit submit, I thought hope she don't think I was suggesting you to breastfeed em 🤣🤣🤣 lmao
Yes agree... I why I keep everyone , but a few , at a distance. My ex wife = overgrown " everything is everyones elses fault... blame.. blame... blame " type child
So many seem to be doing that these days... It's becoming like an epidemic
I brought my first ever pair of slippers the other day, it worried me so much that I nipped into my local shop and brought a ridiculous amount of Haribo in a vain attempt at clinging onto my youth. So basically what I'm saying is that I have no idea!
😂😂I mean childish immature behavior, not the same as being a kid at heart... And not dressing like a kid 😂😂 That must be the milk talking 😂
Oh gawd my stomach curdled on that thought 🤮 why not just get some good whiskey or brandy or wine or straight lager, 😂
At Uni I had an Irish housemate who basically thought every illness could be cured with Hot Toddies (whiskey, honey, hot water and sugar).. I'm pretty certain he used to deliberately leave windows open so we would catch a cold and have to rely on his medicine (interestingly whilst he didn't have symptoms he'd join us out of solidarity) So basically I've used one word of your answer to tell a completely unrelated story but at the same time prove I can be flexible in my decision making lol So in a weird way I'm the winner here lol
😂😂😂 I got lost half way through that 😂😂 lolol jk... And yeah my parents used to give us hot toddies when we were kids
Especially the ones who had everything handed to them.
YEEESSS! Very true!!!
Also, more and more complaining but less productive actions.
Said it there!
Yes, Lovely. It is this Society we Live In Now... xx
Right! It's getting worse not better
I don't think this has anything to do with the president... It's the way kids are being raised or not being raised, lack of being taught manners and accountability, Social media influence...
They just wanna look cool in front of others oh , they're more worried about how the society would perceive them rather than thinking of actual problems.
Omg right! Well said 👍👍
Yes and lmauturity in adults can be much much more dangerous to the receiving end when twisted or confronted
Twisted?
It is like that I see it when dealing with people my age outside of my business associates... hence how I have deemed myself a boomer
👍🙂 but to be fair, it's not just people your age, I've seen people in their 30's and 40's acting way more childish and immature than people your age, both in real life and here on GAG... Some of the smarter, more mature users on here are more your age and some 30's and up more the ones running around name calling and resorting to childish behavior
Yeah society is going crazy... I've found few under 40 who are not utterly mad
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