Do you fit into your gender's rules? (Page 3)
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Im considered pretty feminine for a guy. I wear eyeliner all the time and even enjoy feminine clothing like corset belts. Although, some of these things aren't really considered feminine based on who you ask. I think its really just fashion wise that I dont really fit into my genders expectations- but Im also super into fencing which is considered a more masculine sport. I dont think anyone of any gender is either strictly masculine or strictly feminine- everyone is just a bit of both
Not always. I know in the past I probably would have been embarrassed to admit that I like scented candles and baking cookies, but I don't care anymore.
Yeah, i know my purpose and I refuse to be emotional because logical decisions I make always have the best outcome and knowing that makes my like VERY ea$y
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I recognize everything on the woman's side but what's the 3rd down on the man's?
Anyway yeah I do mostly. Where I don't is I like baking and I'm a part-time caretaker. Also apparently I'm a switch so that's between stereotypes.
Good question,
I have done my part for the village entirely well, flying marks - still waiting for the village cutie to marry and have children with.
Where are these so-called rules? is there an actual list?
Roles, you excuse me
WHat are those co-called roles? is there an actual list of roles for each gender?
That the girl usually cooks, cleans, does indoor stuff, is interested in makeup, fashion and humanities. The guys are the provider, do more technical stuff and are more outdorsy, are interested in Math and IT and video games.
I definitely do not fit in 1952... that was 70 years go, we have evolved.
Largely. I'm however also quite a sensible person who loves to show affection, and many of my personality traits suit a female's more than a male's.
I have several friends who are in modern relationships and they appear to be more roommates then anything else. I am more traditional in that sense and have old fashioned values of the courting process.
What about your friends who are in traditional relationships?
@TomGarand Only couple I know that is in a traditional relationship is my parents.
And your modern friends' relationships are crappy, huh?
@TomGarand The men are in the feminine roll. Example when we are at a restaurant trying to get in the women will lead these guys by the ear. The women will approach the bouncer or the concierge and grab a table even slipping them a 20 when need be. The men are behind the women every step of the way allowing these women to take control of the evening. It's quite a scene. Many men these days are so feminine that they are now in that role permanently.
And how do the women feel about it?
@TomGarand Good question. It appears they feel that they have to lead because they picked these knuckle heads. Same story women going after the shy guy ends up with shy guy ends up leading.
Well, my friend's sister is dominant, and enjoys it. She calls me "Puppy" as a cute nickname, she makes most if not all of the plans when dating, and she drives during those dates a good chunk of the time. In fact, she's also taller by 4 and a half inches, and physically stronger than me.
@TomGarand Whatever works dude. To each their own I say.
So none of your bros' more dominant girlfriends hate being in charge?
Hmmmm. I guess I do. I am more submissive bu nature. That is who I am. Though if I were to find myself on the market I think I would be more open.
No. I like to talk about my feelings and female things.
If you ask me questions I'd be happy to answer them.
I honestly didn't no that we had any rules damn it now I got to start all over again can you explain the rules to me please
Genders don't have socioeconomic or habitual rules, just biological ones.
I switched it up long time ago becoming a cookie, so.
I can cook and clean wash my own clothes. since was a kid mother thought me. Can also do DIY.
That's manly as I see it: self-sufficiency. Actually, self-sufficiency is arguably the manliest trait of them all as I see it as opposed to the man who needs others to take care of him.
Not entirely, but mostly I guess. I don't give a shit about sports or cars... and I am not emasculated easily, which ironically, "masculine" men tend to get very sensitive about their sexuality and flip out easily.
Gender rules and gender roles? I disregard them. I simply do what makes me happy. Success is haters hating you for it.
I was half asleep so I made that mistake with the title. I'm not too good with English so it happens occasionally.
No worries. Hopefully you got the general idea :)
I never heard of gender rules and I don’t see a need to look what that means up. Ur on your own with this! Be yourself
I suppose I do. I’ve been told several times that I’m “so masculine” and every time I was like yeah no shit 😂😂
I do especially since I’m the oldest I always have to do all the cleaning and stuff but my brother who is almost 12 doesn’t really do anything he always cries his way out
Everyone goes between them. But tend to lean more to one side.
To you goes the honesty reward. It is fitting hat the award goes to someone not trying for it. Appropriate.