Why can't some people respect others dating requirements?

[cth2188]

This is no discrimination or hate towards anyone who took the Mrna Covid -19 vaccine. I am noticing some people who are vaccinated are upset that others are refusing to date them.

Based on some information that's out and my own research they're a few barriers with me and dating someone whose vaccinated.

I will not get into details here because it's private , but many who are unvaccinated have their own reasoning and if they want to share fine.

I will say I wouldn't want a partner whose taken something experimental. God forbid something happens to them and I'm left with that burden. I already lost a partner almost 10 years ago and it's very traumatizing when they're children involved.

Folks who are unvaccinated are being called discriminative and I'm confused just 2 years ago we were called lab rats and infecting everyone. So why are most mad? You should be happy were not dating you- we wouldn't want to Infect you.

I can deal with you from a distance without dating you before someone says , " We should all get along. "

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I sure wouldn't want someone to lie and think they're going to be with me. 50% of my conversations are with anti vaxxers. Eventually anti vaxxed discussions will be mentioned.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I don't know, it's weird to me a vaccinated person would consider dating an anti-vaxxer. Like, if you're immunocompromised, sure, but then you'd need to be seeking a vaxxed person to date to keep yourself safe.

I'd certainly respect if someone was unvaxxed. I'd want nothing to do with them, certainly not dating and sharing space.

It sucks you're not getting that respect, though. Maybe just plaster it everywhere, really obnoxiously, that you're unvaxxed and don't want to be around vaccinated people. Post a lot of anti-vaxx memes on your dating profile and be really loud about it.

That way, you'll at least send a really clear message and you'll have a higher chance of attracting other unvaxxed and anti-vaxx people.

Before you meet, ask them for vaccine proof. If they give it to you, ghost 'em. That's probably a good way to do it. I share vaccine info with people who ask me - I've shared with some folks who needed to see proof before allowing visitors into their home.

Usually if you ask for vaccine proof, you'll uncover vaxxed and unvaxxed pretty quick.

[cth2188]

I don't want to become the hate

[cth2188]

I respect everyone and stick to where I'm at with dating, but it'd even beyond dating its friendship too

[cth2188]

It's * I lost a lot of people behind these jabs

[Smoke-n-Growls]

You won't be becoming the hate, you're just making it obvious you're unvaxxed and uninterested in the vaccinated.

Don't post hate memes, just post memes about being unvaxxed. If you can't find any you like, make your own.

Put it everywhere, lead with it.

You've got a right to only hang out with people who don't have the vaccine. That's fine. That's totally your right.

Sticking to your beliefs doesn't make you hateful.

[cth2188]

Due to the 1st amendment censorship is real

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I don't think you understand the 1st amendment.

You're not really being censored if you're sharing memes. If you're sharing harmful misinformation, though, that's not protected by 1st Amendment.

You expressing your preference for anti-vaxx people is protected, but not the consequences of people finding you stupid. That's just the consequence.

[cth2188]

Anything pertaining to Covid-19 or antivaxxers will have you censored

[cth2188]

I don't think you understand I just lost my account on tik tok last month

[cth2188]

Idc how people feel it's on my page if they want to be stupid and message me oh well. I only date anti vaxxers

[cth2188]

I'm not about to express myself anymore

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Well, self-censorship is also permitted, so if you're ready to give up, you were always allowed to do that.

If you can't handle the consequences of speaking your truth, that's a you problem, not a society problem.

You lost your TikTok because you breached Terms and Conditions. You did read those, right? Because TikTok isn't, like, an American thing. It's a Chinese app run by a Chinese company. They have some pretty stringent content laws.

You have no First Amendment rights on that platform. It isn't governed by the US Constitution.

[cth2188]

It's not my problem how others feel because they took an experimental vaccine. I dealt with black lash two years

[cth2188]

I lost my tik tok account because of censorship.. first amendment is gone. Anyone jabbed doesn't have any rights

[cth2188]

Backlash for 2 years the issue is its time to move on for the vaxxed. Date your own kind simple there is no benefit in me dating anyone vaxxed.

[cth2188]

If they can't read my profile that's a personal problem.. people are going to start lying because they been duped and expect people like me to date them

[cth2188]

I'm not jumping through hoops and loops there's no guarantee they'll be truthful anyways

[MzAsh]

Well, just like you have a preference, so do they.

[cth2188]

Good , but their the ones upset not me.

[cth2188]

I can careless about dating someone vaxxed

[MzAsh]

That’s not true or else you wouldn’t have the preference.

[cth2188]

I don't have an issue with vaxxed people dating choices. I have mines and they have there's. Their upset vecayse I won't date them oh well

[cth2188]

Because ^ that's a personal problem

[cth2188]

Let the date other vaxxers there's no benefit in me dating anyone vaxxed

[GingerGuy]

"I will say I wouldn't want a partner whose taken something experimental. God forbid something happens to them and I'm left with that burden." - well thanks for explaining that reasoning because I always wondered the thinking behind it. I get the other way around, but that always confused me a little lol. But that's a common myth also, that's it's experimental, when it's not and has been fully tested. Yes it was "rushed", but it still went through all the testing. The added funding was what allowed it to be rushed, compared to others that take years and years.

But personally I think it's kind of "silly" (to me - to each their own). It's doesn't play a part in who I date or not. Like I say, to each their own. Anyone could die or get sick tomorrow, COVID or otherwise, so to me, it doesn't "matter".

[cth2188]

As a former health care worker it takes 15 years for any vaccine to come out. Everyone has their own dating preferences.. it must be respected.

[cth2188]

FDA is saying these jabs are experimental

[Levin]

If someone is vaccinated and announces it it's an auto-swipe left.

Usually the same people who think health comes at the end of a needle or a drug, and are too lazy to actually do something about their health such as exercising and eating properly.

[cth2188]

I know right it separates a lot

[Anno2]

Would you say the same if you were born with an auto-immune disease and could die when buying groceries?

Oh? You're on the other end with a healthy body, good for you. You could kill people buying groceries but who cares?

[cth2188]

@Anno2 you live in fear I don't.. you create your reality.. I'm a free thinker

[Levin]

@Anno2 I'll acknowledge there are two sides to this, but this is largely hysterical rubbish.

I won't acknowledge that I have any direct bearing on anyone's health, and as we know these jabs don't do what they were supposed to do with regard to transmission.

Each person's health is their own responsibility. Lots of myths, nonsenses and hysterias were spread during this 'pandemic'.

[Levin]

Incidentally I heard the same old claptrap at work about me being some evil disease spreader.

Which is funny, because the same people who said such thing ended up claiming to get it 3 or 4 times, ended up spreading it at work, despite being quintuple jabbed. I've never had it once.

[cth2188]

Right I never had Covid or gave anyone Covid, but everyone I know vaxxed is sick. My grandmother gave me and my family omicron. My mom and grandmother are always sick since jabbed...