Girls, Ladies, what are some ways we can build trust between the sexes?

[TheBootyChest]

This is not about just dating/marriage relationships. This is also about friendships and acquaintances.

What do we need to do so we can trust the person we are talking to?
Is there a specific method that you prefer, or a great suggestion someone told you once?

I always treat people with respect and empathy when I am talking to them. But I feel like for all my consideration, its met with a brick wall when talking to someone who has been hurt/used in the past. Please don't misunderstand me. I understand why it's happening, I just want to know that they aren't completely blocking me off and that we can build trust enough to where we BOTH can be vulnerable with each other.

[PrettyPriya]

I believe being open and honest. Communication is key in any relationship, whether friends or a couple. If people would just talk, there would always be better trust.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for mhg 😘❤️

[TheBootyChest]

I should be thanking you!! 🥰🥰🥰

[Ninjazzed]

You want me to believe you have nothing to hide? Keep your phone unlocked.

[TheBootyChest]

I can completely understand that. Especially if he is cheating with another person.

but hypothetically, what if he was talking to someone who was only a friend (that you both know) and that friend is sharing very personal stuff that they are going through? Like maybe they are cutting themselves or thinking of committing suicide. Would it be "fair" for them to make sure those messages aren't seen by most people?

[TheBootyChest]

I know this can be a bad situation to be, and I probably didn't pick the right topic. But I hope you get my point.

[Js8tvbdd]

No teasing and joking about me r at my expense or makimg me mad. Guys think ty are being playful. I get it. I've grown to accept this about most guys i know. I no longer get offended and realize they are just trying to get closer somehow by doing this. But us women are soft. The weaker sex. We dont actually want to rib around and stuff.

[TheBootyChest]

Let's not say the "weaker" sex, the more sensitive sex. :)

I totally agree with what you are saying. The ribbing is not something you do to get closer to women, it's what you do AFTER you guys are together and understand each other and that it's okay with the other person to do.

[Js8tvbdd]

I prefer your perspective on the ribbing. Most guys off the bat whether as friends or pursuing more, come with the teasing nonsense. Its tiring but yes women will put up with it because we have no other option. If we ask the men to stop they just up the ante.

[TheBootyChest]

If a guy is going to up the ante on something you ask them not to do, then it's time to run.

[menina]

I guess by being honest and listen to your friend/girlfriend.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

By being trustworthy. Why is this even a question?

[TheBootyChest]

Fair point. But what are some things we can do to prove to you we aren't trying to manipulate you just to get into your pants? What if a guy is genuinely trying to have a deep, profound conversation with you?

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Dude... Do you seriously not see the hypocrisy in that? If you have to go out of your way to explain to someone that you are trustworthy then you are trying to manipulate them. If you want to talk to people talk to them.