Yeah so Change yourself become someone your change your Entire personality. Things you hate change that and like the things you hat. or live & die alone.
It has to be very disheartening for a guy to be on a dating app. Social media and online dating have given women a false sense of their attractiveness.
I’m sure some men don’t care and are happy in life being single, but I think many find a cope or a distraction they settle with, m. humans desire connection.
You can desire a man and not “need” him. The risky thing is with women, is that it’s far too common to become codependent and actually believe their self worth and survival depends on a man’s approval. I used to think that way when I was a teenager, and when a boy would break up with me, I was inconsolable, missed school, lost appetite, weight dropped, and I became obsessed about “what I did wrong” and it made men absolutely despise and pity me. it didn’t occur to me until later that I could be ok without a man. Once I internalized that I can be a happy and functional person without a man, that’s when men became attracted to me. When men say they want to feel needed, I’m not sure they understand the fine line between being desired and codependency.
There is a difference between not needing and desiring a man. But the thing is, Men are valued for their work, Their money and stuff like that. They aren't inherinantly valued like women are. By being born a girl everyones sympathy for you is increased than when being born a boy. Thats why most men seek that sense of validation and dependency. And if they dont feel like their work is appreciated, They won't proceed with that work unless they dont have a choice. Weather that be a job or a relationship
In general, single men report unhappiness, tend to earn less money, and die earlier than married men. I’m sure there are exceptions. But as we all know, exceptions don’t make the rule.
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Yeah so Change yourself become someone your change your Entire personality. Things you hate change that and like the things you hat.
or live & die alone.
It has to be very disheartening for a guy to be on a dating app. Social media and online dating have given women a false sense of their attractiveness.
I think the question should also be asked - do men care if they are "unpartnered"? It seems that everyone else cares more than they do.
Agreed, Most men actually dont care. They have their own goals and maybe those goals dont have time for romantic interests
I’m sure some men don’t care and are happy in life being single, but I think many find a cope or a distraction they settle with, m. humans desire connection.
Men can improve themselves but also can consider seeking a mate abroad.
A tall athletic handsome guy is just another one on Tinder but hot stuff in Taiwan.
In other words, where competition is less stiff so you have it easier. Problem is, you won’t respect women in Taiwan.
Love how everyone is always so damn concerned about other people. Everybody needs work except you.
That’ll never happen women profit too much from selling sex ( in all forms) to men
prostitution built the west
for men to improve when would have to put morals over money
Nothing, it's a good think will bring the rampant overpopulation back under control in a generation or two
A lot of guys suffer from one-itis and are lazy, not taking enough swings. If you try, you might fail. If you don't try, you've already failed..
MzAsh, please be honest. Do you feel women are more willing do date down with other women than men?
I would rather be single and lonely than put up with women's bullshit.
Only true in the west for stuck up white women.
Everyone is.
First thing is to evaluate one's values and figuring out what you should want.
The problem these days is that women are claiming they don't NEED a man
What makes it so important to men to keep women so dependent on them?
Because it makes us feel desirable, to be needed
You can desire a man and not “need” him. The risky thing is with women, is that it’s far too common to become codependent and actually believe their self worth and survival depends on a man’s approval. I used to think that way when I was a teenager, and when a boy would break up with me, I was inconsolable, missed school, lost appetite, weight dropped, and I became obsessed about “what I did wrong” and it made men absolutely despise and pity me. it didn’t occur to me until later that I could be ok without a man. Once I internalized that I can be a happy and functional person without a man, that’s when men became attracted to me. When men say they want to feel needed, I’m not sure they understand the fine line between being desired and codependency.
You can't desire a man and not need him
The point of desire is not only that you want him but also that you need him. That's literally what desire is. Why don't women get that
This is why I don't go out with women anymore, that try and make everything about THEM
There’s a difference between desiring a man and needing him.
There is a difference between not needing and desiring a man. But the thing is, Men are valued for their work, Their money and stuff like that. They aren't inherinantly valued like women are. By being born a girl everyones sympathy for you is increased than when being born a boy. Thats why most men seek that sense of validation and dependency. And if they dont feel like their work is appreciated, They won't proceed with that work unless they dont have a choice. Weather that be a job or a relationship
Believe me - not all single men are "lonely" and without options.
Trust me they are happy being single when they know that women would ruin their lifes if they were in a relationship.
In general, single men report unhappiness, tend to earn less money, and die earlier than married men. I’m sure there are exceptions. But as we all know, exceptions don’t make the rule.
I been trying disabled and learning disabilities dating sites.
Dating apps have only made standards that much more impossible for most men to reach, myself included. Love and relationships are beyond me now.
I wrote a mytake about How Patriarchy died that detailed why it is difficult to find your soulmate
Maybe. Maybe women should stop endlessly increasing their standards...
The only option is to just find someone in a store or at an event the old way is always the best
I am going enjoy some answers here for sure!