Have you ever been bullied as a child please tell me?

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Yes so much. By my fucker dad, bitch friends, classmates, and asshole teachers. Physical violence, mocking, bullying everything.

So after 15 years old, i struggled with depression, social anxiety, i also have tendencies to violence and i am so angry. I really understand the mental situation of rappers such as Eminem or serial killers.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Gonna be anonymous for this one haha.

When I was very young, I used to be extremely silent, like I would not talk unless someone talk to me so naturally everyone did not talk to me but rather hangout with those who talk a lot. So there was a group of guys and girls who are bullies they are like very rude and sometimes violent even, if there was ever a fight, the probability of one of them being involved is at least 80%.

I had a decent allowance so I think you can see where Im heading, one day I accidentally dropped my wallet while it is open and you guess it, the money all came out and guess who happened to be nearby, the bullies. So I did not get any of my money back and they told me to start giving them money everyday. The next day went by, I just tried to quickly walk off the moment class end straight to the canteen, buy my food and then try to be near a teacher. It worked until I needed to use the restroom. I dont really want to go into too much detail and I think you can roughly imagine it, but my head in a stinky toilet bowl water that had poop stains on it definitely was not fun.

The next few days I started just giving them half my allowance but one day, my mom forgot to give me allowance cause she had a meeting the night before and it slipped her mind. I was dragged to the top floor toilet of my school where no one goes to and got a pretty big beating there, not gonna lie I thought I was going to die, I was like around high 30 to 40+ kg and some guy who probably was 60+kg sat on my chest and I could not breathe at all.

Soon they realised that I could basically be abused cause I did not tell anyone or have anyone to tell to. So almost every day they would do a couple hits at me or do something humiliating or steal my stuff. I finally got released from this hell after I think a month when a teacher saw a group of people literally pinning me on the ground and stepping on me and called them out. I never felt that happy before and for once talked about them and telling the teacher everything they done to me before.

They were kinda on like the line of getting expelled and I was like the nail to the coffin with those who the teacher saw bullying me got expelled and those part of the group but were not there when the teacher saw did not get expelled. But by then there was very few of them and the teachers all were keeping a super close eye on them so they did not really do much after that. After this incident was known by the school students, a few more came forward to tell about their story of them bullying and that pretty much made the teachers look out for those students. This is more a summarised version of me getting bullied back when i was like 13 or 14 or smth can't rmb the exact age.

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

Hey friend,  I hear you.  I have been in your shoes, I have been bullied, and adults in my life who I thought I could rely on utterly failed to give me any security or guidance. All the way from kindergarten to high school, even when I transferred schools in sixth grade. I made the decision to study abroad to start fresh and make things better, and I have been dealing with some bullies here at my uni too and I have felt immense frustration and hopelessness for a while. Just within the last few days, I had a breakdown wondering did I really fly 7k miles away from home, leaving everything I loved behind just to face the same situation again? It sucks, it really sucks. Sometimes it feels it would be so nice to just be able to take the frustration out on everyone, but that doesn't help with anything. It's awful to think that those who have bullied you are continuing to live a good life while you are still being affected by the trauma every single day and it is hampering your ability to function as a normal human being. You are not alone, and although it is hard to believe, and I myself did not believe it either,  there is help out there for you . And there are people who are there for you. It is only this year that I took the step to visit a psychiatrist and get counseling. Before that it took me years and years of self-reflection, self-awareness and mindfulness to identify what I am feeling, why I am feeling them, how to cope with them. It's very scary tp face yourself but it's the best thing you can ever do for yourself. I don't know where you are from, but I highly recommend making the best use of the resources around you. And if you feel like you need a friend to talk to, I am always there. My DMs aren't open as it is only accessible to people I am following, but you can let me know when you have started following my account so that I can follow you back and we can chat. No pressure, it is just an option that will always be available to you. I wish you all the best. You got this, we are NOT letting bullies defeat us. Live your best life to spite them. Be unapologetically yourself so that these shitheads can see that their screeching won't stop you. They hate to see us being ourselves, they hate our guts and energy, and they can stay mad. We will only keep improving ourselves while they remain in their little shitholes from where continue to bark at us. They became losers when they chose to target the vulnerable, and if us simply existing bothers them, we are not responsible.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

No, but people tried. I then threatened to follow them home, wait till they're sleeping, break into their houses, and slit their throats in their bed. I'm not even sure if I was lying or not either, cause they never called my bluff on it. Or ever talked to me again or made eye contact after that day.

Yeah... I did not have what you'd call a happy, well-adjusted, medication-free childhood growing up. It is what it is. 🤷‍♂️ I'm not the same person anymore though. I have changed. So option B; I only had to hospitalize two kids when I was in school when they thought I was an easy target and didn't know how to maximize my environment to my advantage like a f'ckin' Yakuza game.

As for YOU, I'd suggest actual professional therapy (people say that a lot online as a cliché, but I mean it. I did 14 years seeing Dr. Bobbi every Thursday at 6.) And doing boxing or kickboxing. There are healthy ways to be violent too, you know? There's no shame in admitting you need mental help.

Dargil · Accepted Answer

I was tubby in elementary school. Even though I leaned in middle school, I remained a "pick-on kid". But when I turned 16, got my license and worked in fast food (money in my pocket), I bought one of these at Cabela's.

Have you ever been bullied as a child please tell me?

Some time later in the school parking lot, I was followed by "the boys", but had my hand firmly on Mr. Smith in my pocket. When I got pushed from behind by Mr. Castellano, out he came, with my thumb on the actuator, exposing that shiny, but un-sharpened blade. I promptly gripped the blade and drew an "X" on the front of his fleece-lined ski parka and out the feathers poured. He saw the knife and the feather storm and immediately lost his motivation, along with his accomplices. I held the knife up and said "The next time, it will be your guts" and they took their leave. I carried it all the time after that. They glared at me a lot walking down the halls.

DaisyM23 · Answer

I mean people said and did things but I gave back as good as I got so I wouldn't classify it as bullying, I can admit I was a bit of bully around 10/11years old but after that no, I mean my friends and I said things behind people's backs but were never intentionally cruel about anything like looks or something, more about words/actions

exitseven · Answer

I was a fat kid everyone picked on. In 9th grade I joined a gym and started a weight training program. I met a few older guys who really helped me train and improve. By the time I was a junior I was a lot bigger and stronger. The football coach asked me to try out for the team. I was still treated like crap but nobody would mess with me

worldscolide · Answer

I definitely was. I was smarter, did better on my school work and refused to do the same things the ones who bullied me did. Here is the sad thing. In 4th grade my teacher knew it was happening. And encouraged it. She even had ME suspended when a group of kids ganged up on me and beat me until I needed hospitalization.

Paul09 · Answer

Yes, I have. Always seems to be a bigger and strong person too. I've protected people and smart people from bullies too. Like why do they do what they do? Mental illnesses? Jealousy? Too much hate? I just hope these bullies get what they deserve in life. i know I've sent a few who kind of did.

GreenLanternI0I · Answer

Yes I was, but time and a lot of patience does Great Wonders. Now days (2022) I have become Something and bullies and people who were laughing at me and making fun of me, become Nothing.

boggboss · Answer

I understand everything u said until u said u know how serial killers feel that's just braindead

Andres77 · Answer

Mr. Inbetween. Awesome series. 3 seasons.

FreyaRed · Answer

No. Bullies avoid me. I think it's matter of body language.

joeldalton · Answer

So when are you going to start to reclaim your life and stop letting others run your life?

jayhams · Answer

My first elementary school I used to get jumped a lot.

dudeinohio · Answer

Yes. A lot

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