What's your take on the old-fashioned belief that a man should never hit nor lay hands on a woman regardless of circumstances?

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My own take: Ideally, you shouldn't hit a woman, but unfortunately, many young women out there today want to behave aggressively like men and push a man's buttons knowing he won't do anything back to having a belief instilled into him that he should never hit a girl so they take advantage of that.

If a man has no other choice, he should use only the necessary amount of physical force on a female aggressor to defuse such situation. While I don't advocate or encourage violence against women at all, at the same time, I won't feel sympathy for women who willingly put themselves in an unnecessary position of getting physically hurt by a man after trying to pick a fight. That, to me, is the equivalent of a human male picking a fight with a grizzly bear, not expecting to get his face mauled/destroyed after that.

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

Utter idiocy. One should not use force unless they have to- and if you're in a place where you DO have to, it's usually going to be better to someone overestimate what you need to subdue and/or escape someone, and risk injuring or killing them than underestimate it and fail to stop them. Should the capacities of that person to harm you enter into your estimations? Sure- but a woman who's a trained MMA fighter or a master martial artist or just hopped up on PCP is still going to be a serious threat.

From a more purely pragmatic standpoint, if you're not alone, social factors will also dictate what's called for- in many cases, you'll be safer killing a woman outright than simply beating her up, if you're not alone. This probably does (and certainly should) horrify you- but it's an outgrowth of that same assumption that "women aren't worthy of respect, even as sources of violence".

A man- or a woman, for that matter- should avoid violence when the consequence of doing so isn't worse than that of ignoring it, but if it IS, then gender shouldn't enter into the equation.

Tyrael · Accepted Answer

I think the best thing to do is remove yourself from the situation if a woman is getting aggressive with you. If she's getting physically violent and you can't get away from them, then you need to use the minimum force necessary to stop them, while trying to get away from them to avoid injuring them.

If they come at you with a weapon, like a knife, bottle, or even a stiletto heel, then knock her the fuck out.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I like to be spanked when I'm bad. I like my man to put me in my place

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

What is the implication here, that it's fine to lay hands on your own gender under more circumstances than when its absolutely necessary? Fr y u people always make it complicated n weird.

Self defense: OK. Assault: not OK. Gender doesn't fucking matter when it comes to a fight. Just like age doesn't matter. And race doesn't matter. If u need to fight, do. If u don't, don't. That all.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Ideally only if the woman struck first. Attacking a woman, or anyone for that matter, is foolish because then they should get what is coming to them.

jshm2 · Answer

There never was such a "belief". If anything, men beat women LESS now due to domestic abuse laws and the laws being more prone to listening to women.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

That is a gynocentric traditionalist thought, created so that women continue to exploit men and they cannot defend themselves.

OddBeMe · Answer

Chivalry is kinda antiquated. But society still trains women to be “weaker” or more submissive. If we were Sparta, say, women would probably be as strong as men.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Only in self defense of himself or someone else like his child or defenseles person that is being hit or attacked, otherwise no.  Only a big pussy hits woken.

W0nderb0y · Answer

If I get attacked I’m gonna defend my self. I made the mistake before of not defending myself from a girl. It was painful

Twalli · Answer

I hit back. I won't hit first, regardless of gender, but I will hit back, and I intend to be the last one to hit too,

Anonymous · Answer

If a woman hits a man, he should hit her back, period.

Anonymous · Answer

An eye for an eye.

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