Why are there so many angry men on here?

[HappyWoman34]

You ask questions, they assume it’s about them when they’re irrelevant to your life and they attack you over the most harmless questions? Are these people who know you from your past with a grudge, or are they just bitter, angry trolls?

[BarryLiverstone]

Lots of guys here I have learned don’t really have friends and suffer from low self esteem. So when you challenge them the anger you are seeing is a defensive mechanism.

[Juxtapose]

People can get overly sensitive over subject or maybe they misinterpret how you phrase it.

[ManOnFire]

You definitely see guys on here doing that stuff. But you're also pretending that women are not doing the same things. Guys post questions and women attack them too calling them woman haters and not getting sex because the guys said something that obviously the women identified with deep down and they didn't like it.

[FellowTraveler]

Anger is a natural and necessary emotion. And just maybe they've been put through the meat grinder by their 'ex'. Sound familiar?

[HappyWoman34]

I haven’t had an ex for 6 years.. but I think most were jerks.

[HappyWoman34]

But I don’t feel any bitterness anymore.

[FellowTraveler]

Good, that's a start. Did you over-analayze what happened, as versus discover something about yourself in relationships?

[HappyWoman34]

A bit of both

[FellowTraveler]

That's an excellent start. The following bit of advice is possibly one of the best passed onto me, and now passed onto you. It is figurative, not literal. Man-hole is one of those big metal disc's that are installed in the street surface that provide access to infrastructure below. If you want to take 'man-hole' to mean something else, that is your call.

1. You walk down a street and fall into an open man-hole.
2. You walk down THAT street AGAIN, and fall into an open man-hole.
3. You walk down THAT street AGAIN, but in such a way that you AVOID the man-hole.
4. You walk down that street, but this time you walk down the sidewalk NEAR the man-hole. Since you walk on the sidewalk you AVOID the man-hole
5. You walk down that street, and this time you walk down the FAR sidewalk well away from the man-hole.
6...
7...

And then one day, YOU DON'T WALK down that street anymore!

We are born without an instruction set. We LEARN, or hopefully learn from our experiences. BE PATIENT with yourself, it takes time to LEARN relationships.

Also, a man/woman learns from his/her experiences. A WISE man/woman learns from the experiences of OTHERS. You exemplify the latter in consulting this forum for advice.

Message me privately on this forum if you wish to dialog. Otherwise - BE Happy!

[HappyWoman34]

You are so right. Thanks 😊

[AmeerX]

😅 I try to be nice with my answers but 80% of the time I end up hearing something really revolting so, I may get rude but I don't mean t in hat way

[HappyWoman34]

That’s different 😊

[Apple1996]

Yes lots of sad lonely men on here that get mad about nothing. I low key feel bad for some of them like they must have terrible mental health issues 😕

[tempton]

Yeah loneliness in men is like a disease. It eats them from the instead out until it manifests as either anger or suicidal behavior. Or possibly a combination of both.

[inhua]

for the same reason there are so many angry women. difference is angry women get excused and defended whereas angry men do not

[boggboss]

Its part if the Internet and u can always find someone bitter that will lash out assuming they are being attacked

[Sonorous]

Cause y'all not focusing on the good Men like me.

[AngryCarl2]

Men get angry when they don't get laid. Lots of angry virgins on the site.

[Sparkie460]

I think it's the way they were brought up. They didn't have a good childhood so it made them bitter and they take it out on other people

[Nifrayu]

No idea. I don't think I have gotten any angry comments yet.

[BLP11520]

They are frustrated and we know what I mean

[BuckCannon]

The anon feature needs to get gone.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

😂😂😂😂😂 maybe they didn't understand question

[eagle1951]

hmm maybe they are having a bad day