I'm totally against cheating but when it comes to abuse, you have to define what dors abuse means to you? Becsuse sometimes you can argue with your spouse and might consider it abusive, while in my opinion the only abuse to me is when you beat someone and hurt them...
Sometimes the abuse might be light such as a spank or slap, nothing more and women do it more often than guys if they are in an argument...
I'm someone who can never tolerate abuse from women, if she spanks me, i might spank her hard or break her hand, that's why any woman who speaks with and knows my attitude are always respectful to me and for sure i'm respectful towards them, if a woman is angry than i try to calm her down in a decent way...
In my opinion, the best way to resolve an issue between a couple is by love or an act of intimacy or giving time to the other to calm down, stay away from abuse!
About cheating, like i said before, no excuse for cheating, once you cheat than bye bye forever!
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i think abusive men learned it somewhere, and if he acknowledges his abusive tendencies, and understands very clearly that he needs to open up to himself and work through the issues that causes him to be a terrible person, he can be reformed, the ones, who dont want to accept it, and want to act the way they do and dont care are very dangerous people. im sure it can't be judged accurately, but weve all seen how a lot of abusive relationships end.
Abusive people are always dangerous.
Men and women can be equally manipulative but ultimately we are all responsible for our choices good or bad.
In the past I've manipulated my husband in little ways to get what I wanted.
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This also applies to women as well. Women do this shit to men as well.
Any abusive person is
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