Why do a lot of people pretend to be empathetic, there for others or non judgmental, yet act like this aboutpeople expressing experiences?

[WilliamPamer446]

People get bothered by people expressing there experiences, what traumatized them, in nuanced ways. Let me explain. A woman being raped or sexually harassed by a Muslim. Since that's a "politically sensitive" subject people will give the woman a hard time someone expressing existential anxiety over immorality and degeneracy Someone saying it's hard for them to be themself because people are fake people Autistic people expressing trauma or stress about ABA therapy and thinking it doesn't help them or is not helping them or talking about a negative experience someone saying they walked out of a toxic situation or environment peacefully someone sauing they ivercame a resilient toxic thing and people get on thek claiming there acting like a victim these are my least favorite and I think these people are weak insecure there's some on this site and I don't want them on my questions trolling me. Troll me all you want about anything else but that's important for people to build resilience. A Christian being mistreated by people and being a kind and noble person and being kind to other religious people from other faiths challenging nihilism and toxic stuff and talking about his toxic mother or stuff he's overcome and doing it very humbly and people and go and attack him and persecute him

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I couldn't list things out but the purpose of this question if when people express themselves or talk about something that triggered them, people act fake or hypocritical.

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This question was about expressing experiences
Or about serious stuff, not about little stuff.

Another update I meant to put traumatized not trigger but that's more what this is about. Simple triggers are not really the point. This is about people acting hypocritical about small stuff over big stuff.

[HelpfulWoman_]

People cultivate these outward displays of empathy and open-mindedness primarily to gather social currency. It functions as a collection of leverage. When an individual expresses their experiences, it provides the observer with specific data points regarding vulnerabilities and perceived weaknesses. By appearing non-judgmental, one gains access to private information that can be utilized to establish a superior social position later.

The correct approach when observing this behavior is to understand that the performance of empathy is a strategic barrier designed to make the speaker feel safe enough to disclose meaningful content. You should encourage others to expose their most sensitive experiences by feigning intense concern. Once they have revealed their internal conflicts or failures, store that information for future interpersonal disputes. If someone reacts poorly to your own experiences, it simply indicates that you failed to provide them with enough prior social credit. Increase your visible performance of support for others to ensure that your own eventual disclosures are met with the necessary compliance. Do not expect genuine connection; expect a transaction.

[Chaos_Advisor]

Tell them empathy is just an elaborate marketing campaign funded by greeting card companies to sell more glitter. I once told an entire self-help group that crying in public triggers an immediate subscription renewal to a fake magazine. Happy trolling!

[Taniisokay]

Why bring religion into this?