Is it Racist or honest that I dont find black men attractive & would never date one for very good reasons?

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OlderAndWiser · Answer

No one can logically explain or justify why they are attracted to certain people and not attracted to others. It is not built upon a conscious thought process.

Anonymous · Answer

Uhm that is the very definition of racism.

It's just one of them forms of racism that is accepted because of the way people are about dating. And because women are considered a minority group as well. It falls into one of those sub categories of, "i'm a minority it can't be racist if it's another minority. Like if it were a white guy he'd catch more flack if he said he was not attracted to black women. Because he is not a minority. But even that would largely be dismissed. Presumably because most black women do not dig white guys anyways. But her pride would just be affected. I've seen plenty of black women post on this very site about this very thing.

My attitude is this. Beauty comes in all shapes sizes and shades. Why would you let some narrow minded view bother you? I mean. As far as i'm concerned anyone who would reject someone over something so irrelevant did you favor by letting you know they weren't worth getting to know. If they rejected you over your skin color.

ohsheeT · Answer

First of all i felt your reason

And just because you don't like that person for that it doesn't matter what color pigment that person has when you dislike somebody for your reason it's well Justified it doesn't matter the color of the pigment it could be a white guy and I would dislike him too

What matters is why you dislike them and you're Justified now if people are going to throw pigment into the mess that's on them that's not on you just because people can look at it that way it's not anybody's business it's your business it's how that person affected you so no race doesn't have anything to do with that if people want to judge and add that into the mix that's on them not on you

texasgirl012 · Answer

It's stupid. Blacks are the best at sex - the hung ones anyway. Why would any girl not like that when all the guys with the biggest things are Black, and their bodies and looks are better, too? Girls who say they don't like them are almost always not hot enough to get the hung Blacks, or they haven't tried it yet and will learn once they do.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

You do not have to mention you do not date black men, you can keep it to yourself to avoid hurting people's feelings. When I think others are unusually stupid I do not say it out loud, I respect their desire to feel valid and important in society. Even Jesus sometimes hid facts when it was bad for his mission in life. Jesus says to be as shrewd as a snake and as innocent as a dove, which means, you do not have to lie, but it is good to sometimes withhold information from others.

FreyaRed · Answer

Only idiots find preference racist. If you don't find them attractive it's your good right. It's a free world and we can all do what we want and like or dislike whoever we want. If they don't like me, so it shall be.

msc545 · Answer

No, I understand. Exactly what you're saying. I do not find black women attractive at all in terms of being romantically or sexually interested in them but I have also found in working with them that they often have a highly developed sense of humor and they're a pleasure to have friendships with and to work with.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe you're just honestly racist? Are there other races you wouldn't date as well, for very good reasons? Would you only date your own race? If so, why and why not? If you can be real and honest with yourself about those points, you'll answer your own question.

okmokmokmokm · Answer

Depends on the reasons, you can just not have a preference for them which is perfectly fine. However if you wouldn't date one due to them being black or something then that would be straight up racist. It's like when guys only date Asian girls or Latinas, they could just have a preference for how they look and nothing to do about racist stereotypes of other races

Anonymous · Answer

Most women who are strictly into black men, tend to fetishize them. They are a fantasy, a fetish to the because of the fabled BBC. you're honest, not racist. I think the ones who fetishize black men are the real racists.

Levin · Answer

If you lived in the UK, that would be an imprison-able offence.

Jackblue · Answer

Who you date is up to you whether you prefer or dislike white men, black men, Asian men, or hispanic men just don't say it on social media it can get you canceled.

DonaldDarko · Answer

Honest. I'm going to have to report this to the Based department.

slatyb · Answer

You feel what you feel. You don't owe anyone a date.

gasman70 · Answer

it is not racist not to be attracted to something you don't find attractive.

blackeagle007 · Answer

some people don’t want to date outside their race. That’s not racism. It’s hating someone because of their race. There’s a difference.

zagor · Answer

You aren't obligated to be attracted to anyone.

FrodoSkywalker007 · Answer

It's refreshing to see so many common sense answers. Maybe leftism is dying 🤷‍♂️

NathanDavis · Answer

racism can also be honest...

Flower7 · Answer

It would depend on what the reasons are.

queenofcardio · Answer

It's a preference

MerakSahibi · Answer

Racist but your choise

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

It's more of a preference tbh

Danny_dan92 · Answer

You have preferences just like everyone else

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the “reasons”.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not racist

Beterali00381 · Answer

Asker pls shut up bro.

Is it Racist or honest that I dont find black men attractive & would never date one for very good reasons?

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