Should I be mad that my boyfriend went to a strip club?

[crina]

My boyfriend went to a strip club last night. Him and I had a fight and we had made up so I thought he wanted to stay in but he just left and said he would be back soon. He said he was going with his friend for a beer. He never goes to a strip club. He came home pretty early... the thing is he said some stripper sat on his lap ...I really don't feel comfortable and honestly I am hurt by this? How can I get over this? get him back? but I don't go to strip clubs? I am mad I guess but I don't know what to do now. I am grossed out by that

[Anonymous]

It's really not a big deal. Let your man have dude time. You don't have to be involved with ever aspect of his life. It's not worth it to get jealous and insecure about it. He obviously came right back home to you. you should be happy he was honest with you and not mad... that's my input

[longtailjim]

Be on his side. Put his interests first. Don't judge or get weirded out. If you really care for him, show it. Don't take sides and keep score. He's not worth the paper he scrapes his ass with, but no man is. Get used to it.

[Anonymous]

If you never go to dance or night clubs without him, then you have right to be mad. If you go to dance or night clubs, you have no room to talk to him about that, as those are the female equivalent of strip clubs.

[HisGraceLordCalculon]

Go see the Chipendales and see how he likes you oogling other dudes.