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Valentine's Day Should Be For Men Too (Page 3)
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Women should give in to the guy at night after he pampers them throughout the day, so perfect
When like 8pm after she has been pampered with at least breakfast, dinner and whatever he has planned during the day. How is she going to pamper him.
@MysteriousDarkness I'm guessing she pampers him by letting him perform 40 minutes of foreplay, followed by 30 minutes of cunnilingus, followed by 5 minutes of penetration...
@Jager66 I figured someone would say something sexual. It is so typical
@MysteriousDarkness yeah because that was the innuendo of her post genius... no one likes a virtue signaler, so why not contribute instead of just being a horses ass, even if it's just to tell me to fuck off.
That's a great point.
How about just get rid of Valentines Day?
I'm sure you're not the only person who would be on board with that. But personally, I love to celebrate Valentine's day, whether with my family, friends, or partner. I don't see the harm in a holiday that celebrates love.
Things are expected of you which creates unhealthy stress.
Then you and your partner are celebrating the wrong way. it should be fun, not stressful.
I don't know a single guy in a relationship who isn't stressed out by Valentines Day. Guys do not like it.
My boyfriend is fine with it. He knows it means a lot to me- and he also knows that I'll do most of the work and planning that goes into it. So he's happy to go along with it.
Again, if you feel stressed out by it, you're celebrating it wrong.
Is he fine with it or does he just act like he's fine with it? Because a lot of guys act like they enjoy it to their girlfriend and then bitch to their friends about it later at the bar. And yeah guys know it means a lot to their GF's that's why it's so stressful. It means nothing to us but if we don't act right on that specific day shit goes down.
I actually don't expect that much from him. I expect him to be there and participate and spend quality time with me. We usually make plans together and discuss what both of us would enjoy. Gift giving is always mutual. We typically make a meal that is one of HIS favorites. If he has a problem with that, he has certainly never shown any sign of it- and we have a very honest, trusting relationship where we communicate about everything fully.
I think guys who feel so pressured by Valentine's day need to talk to their girlfriends and have a discussion about expectations and how to make the holiday fun for BOTH of you. I. e. what I said in the above myTake.
And if Valentine's day really is just a favor for the girl, and you're not interested in changing that, then either do it because it means a lot to her and will make her happy (if she does care about it), or suggest a trade- you'll celebrate Valentine's day with her if she celebrates a sporting event or some other thing that she might not be super into just to make you happy. Honestly, people who aren't willing to do something as simple as buying a rose and a few chocolates if it will mean a lot to their SO are the biggest sticks in the mud I have ever heard of.
And single people too.