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Should I get angry at my boyfriend if he doesn't plan anything on Valentines Day? (Page 2)
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Probably be disappointed but since you are only in it for two months you can’t expect a lot and he seems to be very busy but he should get you something
Maybe! Thnx :)
2 months is kinda premature to expect anything.
I dont think a lot of dudes have thought about valentines day since grade school.
You know what mindset he is in, love shouldn't be just shown on a day it should be shown 365 days.
Yeah, but it has to be bought on VD, Christmas, New Years, Birthdays, Anniversaries. Men always get the serious short end of these days.
I think u should chill. Be supportive. He's probably stressed out of his head. After the club opens ask if you both can reschedule Valentine's for a month after if it's that big a deal.
My question to you is, why are you not doing the planning? I know you got him a gift and that's great, but why do you view it as his responsibility to do the planning?
Did YOU plan anything for VD? Why does the man have to be the VD white knight?
i did lol, got him a painting of his favorite abstract photo (it matches his room) , printed it out on a huge canvas and added a cool frame to it ^^
That's a gift, not a plan.
Maybe his plan is to give you really good sex.
If he is like every other man in the U. S., he is dreading VD.
I can't plan anything because he has a busy day at the club thats why i got him a gift. I mean its the thought that counts and i hope hell like it
"It's the thought that counts", when receiving a gift she does not like, said no woman --- ever.
ok and what's stopping you from organizing something for valentines day?
Um I did get him his favorite abstract painting (searched it from google and printed it out on a huge canvas with a frame), I will be hanging it in his new apartment as a surprise because it goes great with his furniture and he always wanted photos on his empty walls but never had the time to hang one :)
how is that related to Valentine's day? It's supposed to be a day where you show your love for one another. You could do this any other day of the year. He's not doing anything because he chose work and financial stability over 1 "special" day out of the year, but you're not doing any better to be honest. You did something sure, but to me that doesn't say "i love you" that simply says "i listen to you and i remember that you like this"
you think 1 Valentine's day out of your entire life is significant? HELP HIM, support him, give him suggestions, new ideas, go to his opening night I DONT KNOW
I DO HELP HIM AND I DO support him. I am always by his side and always with him during his business meetings and stressful days! I do give him suggestions, and new ideas for his opening night! I surprise him everyday at work with food and kisses and I have so much respect for him. But I can not tell you all that in a question online so please don't assume things about me. And giving gifts especially memorable ones are a part of loving each other! Why would you assume that only because I mentioned a gift.
you didn't give me any info to point to the contrary : i see you whining that he didn't organize anything, so why don't you organize something?
I did, I replied to every single thing you asked me but you keep turning in circles
and i do have something planned :P whats next are you gonna tell me to write him a poem and bow on my knees?
no now that i have all the info again : why is it so bad that he didn't plan 1 Valentine's day? out of an entire life?
Does he consider your needs or does he seem to just use you for what you can give him?
Nope. Stop being so materialistic and dramatic about a holiday corporations created to sell things...
My opinion on this, you have the right to be angry. I have the same problem with my boyfriend. But it is what you want to feel. I get mad at him a lot and it puts him in his place.
Are you doing anything for him? Romance goes both ways...
Um I did get him his favorite abstract painting (searched it from google and printed it out on a huge canvas with a frame), I will be hanging it in his new apartment as a surprise because it goes great with his furniture and he always wanted photos on his empty walls but never had the time to hang one ^^
Is that how he treats you he not treating you exactly how you feel about Valentine's day let me explain life to expensive to worry but if you get it right you feel good about how we feel
Age difference is not far apart enough. He is too young. A older guy will appreciate and spoil you like you deserve.
Whys that a problem. Do you even kniw why its a holiday without searching
I mean you've only been together 2 months for one thing & second you obviously know how busy he is.
No, valentines day is nothing special. It's a day like every other day.
Yes it's right and do u have boyfriend
Yes, I have a boyfriend
from how months/year do u have boyfriend
We have been together for almost 7 years now. And we never celebrated valentines day.
strong love each other loving and caring
Yeah, you should treat your partner with a lots of love and respect on every day of the year.
do u have any girls as friend make me friend i will chat and let flirt
If he treats you good everyday, who cares about Valentine?
Special entitled little snowflake. Got it.
You'll be real lucky if he doesn't dump your azz.
Bitter not much eh @Browneye57
You obviously got your azz dumped a few times to have caused your cantankerous attitude and bitter outlook on life
@pierre7i - Ah, another weak-sauce girlie man white-knight.
What happened to you kids? No dad, huh?
Asker is a princess wannabe gold digger. She's lucky some guy is willing to worship her. Poor simp.
I would tell her to piss off.
Chill who you calling entitled? I did get him his favorite abstract painting (searched it from google and printed it out on a huge canvas with a frame), I will be hanging it in his new apartment as a surprise because it goes great with his furniture and he always wanted photos on his empty walls but never had the time to hang one. Also I am not expecting free things or fancy dinners, its just the thought. Like A simple rose will make me happy. So please dont judge me or jump to conclusions ^^ He's my first boyfriend in 4 years and I think after spending Valentines alone every year, a small gesture will be nice. Holidays are meant to be enjoyed, its not all about money.
And gold digger who? I never let him pay for shit and I also work morning till evening and have my own career and independence. I dont need no man for money. Judgmental guy i feel sad for you, who has damaged you so much. I pray for ya peace
Sure, sure. My bet is reality is a far cry from your own cognizance. We'll see.
I've seen way too may just like yourself. It's always a double standard. And you have expectations, whatever they are, that may or may not align with reality. All you want is a rose from him? Sure.
Sorry toots, not buying it.
okay i hate roses and simple gestures, whatever gets you to sleep at night
You've seen sure, but you haven't seen or met me yet. Its just a simple question you twisted around in your head. But again OK lol
You silly girl - I don't need to meet you to understand you. You're just like every other 24yo little snowflake that thinks you're all that AND a bag of chips. GET OVER YOURSELF.
Consider being GRATEFUL, that he even pays you ANY attention, that you're part of his life, that you have someone worthwhile that cares for you. And if he doesn't, or you don't THINK he does (I know, FEEL he does) then next him and find one that does.
Publicly complaining about whether you should get angry about ANYTHING simply shows how immature you are, and no high-value guy is going to want to put up with that bullshit. I GUARANTEE IT.
And I can nearly guarantee you that while he may like enjoy and appreciate this stupid painting, it will mean nothing near what it means to YOU. You make everything about YOU - and that will be your undoing.
What you really don't get is that you're a 24 year old GIRL that is simply full of emotion. In contrast, I AM SURELY NOT. But you probly won't understand that for another dozen years or more. So instead of coming here to LEARN something you just mouth off. It makes you look beyond silly.
guys are dumb af just tell them or get rid of them
You wanted to fuck him because he was ambitious and had money and goals.
wtf im a virgin u idiot and im rich why would i need to fuck him cz of money and goals
PS: can't believe thats a 40 year olds answer lmfao
lol, I'm wise enough to see through your bullshit.
Nope just an old quick to judge dis-respective asshole who's probably been hurt by a gold digger and thinks all the girls are the same. I feel sorry for you but oh well.
Enjoy your lonely Valentines.
so mature :P lol ok
Dude, not everything revolves around sex. Nothing she said made it sound like she's a gold digger. She asked a legit question and that's your answer? I bet woman are beating down your door?
@glennt72 Thanks, Mr. White Knight.
@glennt72 thank you appreciated <3
Treat women the way you want guys to treat your mom and sisters. It has never failed me.
@glennt72, no I will not treat women like my mom and sister in law. I will treat my friends like that but women I am dating will be treated differently. I don’t make out with my mom, I don’t plan dates for my mom.
@ecfresh you missed the point. I'm old school, so I treat all women with an extra amount of respect. It's a southern gentleman thing. I hold doors open for all women, not just the ones I'm in a relationship.
I got your point. Born and raised in Florida and my mom taught me how to be a gentleman. Those actions that you listed are by default. I am simply saying that women I am dating, romancing, and considering to be a future wife are treated differently than my sister-in-law. If I did treat them on a date like I treated my best female friend I would come off as a ‘nice guy’ : unsexual, boring, conservative, and unauthentic
No @bangyourhead that's not being wise, that's being offensively rude and also bitter
Who hurt and damaged you along the way?
@pierre7i I'm neither hurt nor damaged. This is the easy trap for all the white knights to fall into. She was attracted to him because he was ambitious and now is ticked he's being the person she fell for and is trying to get help to change him. Then if he did change, her attraction would wane. You can try to imply that I'm lacking something because I point out the truths, but it really doesn't matter.
No, you're not wise @bangyourhead - you're offensive, and aggressively rude... enjoy being alone as you undoubtedly are, or will be as you end up old and bitter !
@pierre7i Actually not, but good job projecting.
You will no matter what; why bother asking?
No coz Valentine’s Day is stupid
"he is 30 I am 24" Why does this matter.
Write the date of valetines day on his forehead xD
Maybe he’s has a surprise for you.
He’s cheating you, my friend was the same
No u need not to get angry u can just call me
lol ^^
How many other men do you expect to reach out to you on VD?
@KrakenAttackin DUDE GET A LIFE LOL
@KrakenAttackin Divorced huh? Now I know why your so bitter. But seriously f*uck off
Such a classy c*** you are.
You should be highly disappointed.
If love means just one day to you
No. Thats stupid. its just one day like any other
No..
No, not at all.
Yes of course
What did you plan?
Got him his favorite abstract painting from google, (printed it out on a huge canvas with a frame) will be hanging it in his new apartment as a surprise ^^
Nope.
Nope