My boyfriend says his country doesn't really celebrate valentines day, didn't say anything the whole day and went to the gym instead, is it normal for men to just not have an interest in these things? I brought it up several times during the day and he just made like it was nothing
I will never EVER give in to that money grabbing commercial holiday. When I was young they didn't do that nonsense. It wasn't until a few decades later that the marketing people brainwashed women to think they are entitled to it. The women in turn guilt trip the men into doing something for it. Nice marketing play for the money grabbers, but I refuse to be drawn into it. Fortunately the women I've been with were sensible enough not to fall for it either.
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He said his country doesn't celebrate it. If you want him to you need to show him why. If you celebrate it then take it as a chance to celebrate your love for him so he can see what it looks like. You have a chance to expand his horizons and to show him your love and your appreciation. Or you could continue being mad and upset and ultimately destroy your relationship.
Of course! Is not written anywhere that you MUST wish Happy Valentine's day to anyone. Me and my husband never say it and when we do is in a joking manner.
A man will never be worth my time if he doesnāt make Valentineās Day important.
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Even if his country doesnāt celebrate it, heās not in his country anymore. Heās over here now and if heās going to date someone that has that custom, then he should accommodate you. If he wants to assimilate. Lots of guys probably donāt like the holiday because they have to make an effort to show they care.
I think you got your answer. His country doesn't. Now he does not legally HAVE to say it.
Maybe you arenāt compatible.
Not being willing to follow a fake, Americanized āholidayā means the ability to actually think for yourself. 👍
If not saying happy Valentineās Day or not getting someone a gift on such a ridiculous āholidayā beings such frustration to women they shouldnāt be in a relationship.
Yes, to me it is. If his love for you is true, his eyes would never lie. That's my opinion.
Of course it is, itās like skipping your siblingās baby shower to see a new Godzilla movie or something, totally valid.
Only if there was an emergency early in the morning or late at night before 12am
Valentines day is just a way for corporations to make money. If you need to be told what day to celebrate your love then you are a moron.
Sure, its meaningless.
It's okay in my relationship.
Yeah, that holiday is dumb.
If that's your culture it's fine
Noā¦.
That's not ok.
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