Honestly speaking, how do you expect your boyfriend to be okay with you if you lied more than once over little things?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I got into a fight because he says that I'm lying to him. One thing for sure is that i love my boyfriend veery much and no I’m not cheating on him. if that was the case I would’ve been single. But my boyfriend says that I’ve lied to him more than once and he even put me on the spot on one occasion. Things he says that I lied about are, saying that I posted him on social media (atm we were joking around or so I thought cause he said that he accidentally posted me on his story just playing around, and well I told him that I did too, but in reality in my story it was a cartoon character that I said was him), when we got into a huge argument and we didn’t talk for days, I changed his contact name after I saw that he changed mines and so he said that I lied to him cause I kept changing the story. He says I change my story a lot, it’s just small things that he says I lie about, small unimportant things. I've always been real to him about bit things. How can I answer this question to him? I really want to be with him and he does too, we gone through so many obstacles for this be the end. What can I do? What can I do to prove to him that I can be better. I know he hates lying. How can I show him? How can I answer him honestly this question tomorrow when he calls me. Help please

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What can I do to not tell small little white lies and prove to him that I can be honest

[Guy13]

He is immature and controlling because of his own insecurity. People like him run it into the ground on their own blinded in Fear. You can't do anything with that but watch your heart and his brain-emotions unravel... sorry.

[Avicenna]

No one is OK with that, but it usually doesn’t result in a breakup

[Asker]

so what can we do? he already has trust issues and I've been trying to gain his like you have no idea.
So how or what can I do?

[Avicenna]

Maybe try couples therapy

[Iron_Man]

I don’t like liars myself liars need to change their ways

[Asker]

So how or what can I do? I know it's literally to be honest, but how can I show him or what I can tell him?

[Iron_Man]

You can hang out and do things you are just gonna have to tell him the truth there’s no beating around the bush. Tell him you don’t want to be an adulterous and you have to have a clean slate and be free and you need to see the paperwork of the final divorce. There is no kissing, foreplay or anything all that stuff leads to sex.

[Asker]

wait Im confused because there's no cheating involve, nothing of that sort that involves our relationship. just small little white lies

[Iron_Man]

Right but how do you know he doesn’t want to get personal with you because he’s getting ready to get divorced soon

[Danny_dan92]

If you lie over small petty bs. You’ll lie about severe shit

[Anonymous]

That wouldn't go down well with my husband.