Love creates equality but seeks it not

It seems no matter how much evidence there is to the contrary some people still try to fit square pegs into round holes. They say the beginning of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result. This article is a modest attempt to tempt those men that seem to want only pitty for their frustration with women rather than practical new ways of thinking and in the end, acting, to forever wash away the mystery and at times genuine anger, and create peace and pleasure with women.

I say modest because the majority of men won't listen to this article carefully as they read it or do their best to understand what is being said, simply because some ideas people hold are so strong that its very difficult to completely melt them away.

Now, the main cause of this frustration the way I see it is that, simply, most men today have forgotten that women are women, and with due cause. Feminism being the major culprit has fed men with conflicting messages. On one hand you have female power and confidence, "I am woman hear me roar" on the other hand you have women almost in the same breath saying how they want the man to step up to the plate an approach them. You don't have to look far for examples, I can count more than a few times on GaskG where a woman would write something along the lines of "I'm a very confident woman... why do I have low self esteem?"

How can a woman say one thing but inside be feeling another you may ask? Well if you understood the simple fact that women are not men... perhaps you would need not ask :). Too many men seem to just complain and whine about women doing something that they don't understand, and when you explain to them that they do this because they don't play the game the same way you do (assuming they do will only cause you frustration and make you lose, and in the end you have no one else to blame but yourself)they deny it and sometimes even try to castrate you to have their attitude, after about a one page question right above their comment that talks about how depressed they are the no woman will give them the light of day. :S

While we share a lot of things biologically (two arms, two lungs, and for most people a brain) there are plenty of things that separate us. There are always going to be exceptions to the rule, there are going to be feminine men and masculine women, men who are very emotional and women who would give some men a run for their money when it comes to logic. But to down play the majority and base your core beliefs and actions on the minority is like hitting your head against a brick wall.

In some ways It might be human nature to do this. "Cuz even though we survived through the struggle that made us, We still look at ourselves through the eyes of the people that hate us". Sometimes no matter how much praise we may get, a single critic may bring our whole world crumbling down. Its up to us to rise above some of the bullshit that is pumped through the media and go back to examining our life. All I propose for those guys, is rather than looking for people to share the same old ideas as you, the ones that have not bought you much success it seems, is to dress up in new way of thinking, acting, and view the kind of results you get.

Society has told us many lies when it comes to women. Often the road to hell is paved with good intentions, so while complete equality sounds good on paper communism did too. There is no need to be angry about traits that are natural to ourselves just like there is no need to force women into acting contrary to the way they are naturally inclined too. Let society be the annoying fly that you know is there, but you are so into screwing the hot swedish chick on your bed that it is invisible to your attention. Do what works rather than what you think should and maybe you will find that what works is actually not as bad as people have told you.

So there, I hope now you guys take the time to understand what women do, to take the time to observe women and more importantly yourself and realize that we are different, its not good or bad, we all have our strengths and our weaknesses. Ignoring those strengths and trying desperately with failure to imitate ideals is like a talented comedian going to law school to become a below average lawyer because it was the thing to do. On the one hand it may seem like a noble move, in the end however all he manages to do is depress himself doing something they don't really want to, and denies pleasure for the rest of the world, leaving them wondering why they are unhappy when society had always told them that being happy will come from finding a stable job after college.

As hard as it may be to believe there is a light at the end of the tunnel, there is enlightenment when it comes to women, even though it might not be very PC and totally different to what you have heard before... It's time to quit blaming the environment for you failure, its time to grow up and realize there are somethings that you can't control and to make the most of what you have.