Men's Rights Advocates, Stop Begging Feminists to Change

Listening to most women's foolish opinions has vindicated my own approach to dealing with women's opinions on the matter of gender relations and equality. My approach is simple. I don't waste my time with women, except when doing so provides me with an extremely rare opportunity to express a seldom heard male perspective on a gender related issue.
Why? Because most women are so caught up in their own sense of victimhood and sense of entitlement that they will not even entertain the idea that their conduct may be contributing to the problems of today's society. Women never hold each other accountable for anything. And why would they? They live in a society that tells them that all their problems, along with everything else wrong with society, are men's fault.

So you see, I would be dealing with women who feel no need to concede to any point I make about women's wrongdoing, no matter how valid. This is because I am an individual man who does not have the weight of social and cultural gender biases on my side.

Putting it in more simple terms, whenever you discuss any female wrongdoing with a woman, they simply dismiss everything you say and point the finger right back at you. Because everyone knows, men are the ones who mess up, every time. The problem that you have must therefore be your own fault or this problem you've identified in women only arises because some man or group of men are doing something wrong somewhere.

Now why on earth would I waste my time and energy with a fool who thinks like that? And more to the point, why would you?

These women do not measure themselves by the same codes of honour and good behaviour that men do. They have no code of ethics which prescribes good or bad behaviour for women. For women the rule is simple -- anything goes... which translates into the "you go, girl!" chants we hear from women every day. A philosophy which says that anything a woman does, no matter how destructive it's impact on others, is empowering and liberating for women.

It amazes me that you, as a man, think you can make a dent in the mind of something like that, especially by arguing with what you think is logic and good old, downright common sense. You're as lost as they are.

You see, I'm reading what some of you guys are writing in response to women's questions and articles, and I am witnessing you taking a proverbial beating from women whom Forrest Gump would look down upon as his intellectual inferiors. They're dispatching you with ease because you've failed to identify the source of the problem. You're targeting the symptom, not the cause. The symptom is indeed out of control women, while the source of the problem is a system that has taken over the husband and father roles and in so doing, reduced men to nothing more than a temporary plaything for women, which can be discarded when it no longer amuses them.



Men,

By engaging these women, all you're doing is the equivalent of asking a selfish, spoiled child to stop being spoiled. But it's too late -- the child is already spoiled. The child is spoiled because it's used to having it's expectations met. What you should then do is identify who is spoiling the child and make them stop spoiling the child.

Now, who is spoiling women and making their behavior so intolerable to us? The system, mainly the legal system -- that's what we need to stop spoiling women. You must understand this and stop wasting your time asking women not to be selfish and spoiled. Otherwise, you will continue to be frustrated and they will only continue to make you look very stupid.

It is YOU who needs to change. You need to change your approach to one which attacks the hate-sponsored system of female privelege. You must redirect your energy to recruiting other men to our cause of men's rights. Because only when there are enough of us, will we have the power to abolish this system based on male oppression, implement the changes we want to see, and ultimately take our power back as men.