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Why is it That Guys Are Attracted to Such Bitches?

 
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"I see time & time again nice guys who are with total bitches. Controlling, manipulative, nasty, down right bitches. Sure maybe they are pretty or have a nice body. But is it more important to men that their woman look nice or be nice?"

Cause they are stupid (or just haven't learned yet). They may deny it, but deep down they know it. Most young guys (myself included) grow up seeing beautiful women on tv and our natural hormones kick in and we want a bombshell. Men are genetically wired to look for a healthy women to have babies with, that's why long healthy hair, nice breasts and waist to hip ratio are 'hot' to us.

Now, at his base this is what a man wants. But when (if) he matures, he wants a women who treats him good. Beauty IS only skin deep and being with a bitch DOES get old. Sometimes a 'nice' guy doesn't have the self esteem and wants a good looking girl so bad he will let them treat him like crap. Just like a girl who stays with an asshole who beats her, they lack the strength to stand up for themselves and drop that person.

Over half of marriages fail in America, I think most of it is because the majority of us who get married are still superficial. Men want the looks without necessarily (or overlooking) what is inside. Women want money, looks and social status , but sometimes overlook how a man is inside and use a man for money or the fact that he is powerful/successful. It is all so superficial and fleeting.

In my opinion, if you talk to successful truly happy couples, there is an attraction and financial stability, but also a deep spirituality. People don't have a solid relationship with God, and in the long run it affects not only the relationship but also how they relate and treat their kids. Morales, self love and spirituality (a real relationship with God) are necessary and important.

Look around, bitches and Jerks (If they stay that way) never have healthy, mutually happy relationships that last. Eventually, we all get old and ugly :) But at the end of the day how you treat each other and how you feel about each other is most important.

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Stanley Rock on. Good article. - More than a year ago
Living-the-ADvenTURe I'm glad you talked about the relationship with God, because it's so ture it's very important. This is also an interesting article. God bless - More than a year ago
xxBlonde-Barbiexx I liked this.. ;) But what I don't believe is that all guys are with what you consider bitches just because they are "hot" at one point.. those people were nice to the person being stepped on, they wouldn't be with them if not. ;D Thanks! - More than a year ago
joecollege This article was an answer to a question a woman had asked me.I used her words and the context she put it in, women who might be pretty with a nice body but were controlling manipulative and nasty. Your right though, some people are nice and then change - More than a year ago
joecollege I also have to agree to disagree with you on your last sentence,with them or not I wouldn't call it nice to step on a person.Were all human and we all make mistakes tho .Everyone has a right to thier own opinion and beliefs.I appreciate your perspective:) - More than a year ago
SIRKGM14vg I agree with a majority of your statements, except for the last part. You can have a spirituality with one another, regardless of your religious beliefs. Its how deeply involved you are with that person, and whether you understand them well enough. - More than a year ago
joecollege Defining what is spirtual can be a big can of worms :) I'm glad you have an opinion on it though and enjoyed most of the ideas. - More than a year ago
unpredictiblegirl I just have to comment that your answer was right on the mark. you gave a good explanation and know what you are talking about. - More than a year ago
joecollege Thanks unpredictiblegirl :) - More than a year ago
A-R-Norman Amen Joe--it is so true--as we mature we want better and deserve better--and jerks and bitches end up old and alone, never knowing why... - More than a year ago
Meanie-Jello I love the article. It is true that bitches and jerks never have a long happy relationships. - More than a year ago
shayna1988 Read the book "Why Men Marry Bitches" by Sherry Argov. It actually contains some valid points and is a very funny read. It's different then the "bitch" that your talking about. It's more a woman that knows what she wants, takes a stand for what she believes, and won't let a man determine her entire exsistance.
- More than a year ago
gonaners16 The divorce rates for christian people and athiest people are about the same.. - 11 months ago
amberview What of the guys with manipulative controling unattractive women. I've seen that a lot actually. It's not going to change me now, but sometimes I feel like our fellow "nice guys". - 10 months ago
authentic Very insightful article, thanks. Most people overlooked the importance of spirituality in a relationship (you don't need to be a believer of any religion to be spiritual). What happens to couples without spirituality is, boredom, usually in a only a couple of years, because these people only have a mind (needing new things/people to keep it aroused) and a body (lust). The end results are all too familiar, cheating, triangular relationships, divorces, fights (abuse), quarrels,....etc. - 4 months ago
 
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