Do guys like it when girls make the first move?

It's a nice change of scenery.

nope it is not so actually it is not a weird stuff. better select a guy who is really active for such cases. else you will be bored.

neo

wouldnt be a first but still I like making the first move

Just don't come in a thousand miles per hour. I had a girl do that to me and my training kicked in because it look like it was a head butt and I move to one side avoiding her kiss. (that look like a head butt because of the speed she was moving at)
You can imagine both our surprise on our faces as I was standing there in my fighting stance ready to drop a right hand into her temple, and she standing there kissing the air were I was just a split second earlier.

i love it when a chick takes charge
yeahhhhhhhhhhhh

i like an aggressive and confident girl
since I'm kinda shy in a way maybe "/

Yeah. It's nice when women share some of the risk of rejection.

If you both like each other, I don't think it really matters who does what, as long as it's kind of balanced. Like if you kiss him first, then you might want to wait a little bit to see if he wants to hang out with you more, or to go on a date. Just don't make him think he doesn't have a lot of self-confidence if your always asking him out. You want him to be comfortable around you too and be able to do stuff with you too.

Making the first move is definitely is a good quality. It takes confidence.

Girls making the first move takes away the fear of rejection.

Kissing me first is just fine with me!

No, it's not weird but encouraged.

Haha. This is a good one. It is not weird for a girl to make the first kiss. It is just written in stone as a rule that guys make the first move. Rules get broken though. You can make the first move if you want, or you can put the whole cute girl routine. Make him want to make the first move.

Trust me, I mean this with all my heart when I say guys have a tough time reading a girl's signs. It is impossible. We do not know what you want or when you want it. So if you are ready for the first kiss and you want him to make the first move, you need to be sure that the signals you give off are well understood.

But if you are just asking can girls make the first move, then sure. Of course they can =)

no most guy would love that... they could rip my trousers off even

I love it when girls start the conversation first.

Depends on the guy. I don't give a damn who kisses who first - it's a two-person activity, right?

Anyway, most guys I've met think it's f***in' awesome for a girl to make the first move. Some don't like it because they think males should always initiate everything. Whatever, the hell with them ;)

Yeah, its not weird at all.

in my opinion I like it when the girl makes the first move to begin with just so I can be confident from then on, I have absolutely no idea what a girl is thinking on the first date but after the first date I become confident, I think its the same for most guys

yes but only for it on your fast date just to make him feel confident on kissing you next time.

For me, I like to be the first one to make the move..idk I'm kinda shy and I want to be comfortable?
But like when we get more into IT(though I'm still a virgin haha) sometimes I would rather the girl makes the first moves...I don't like feeling like I'm moving too fast and she's feeling uncomfortable and wants me to stop, but goes on anyway

idk if you know what I mean?

There's nothing wrong with it!
You have nothing to lose

Good luck!

Depends on the situation?... It is pretty great when the girl makes the first move, because believe it or not..most likely the guy is thinking the exact same thing...but, more pressure..because the stereotype is "guys make the first move"... but, when a girl does it, it alleviates all of it!

I think the girl should give a hint that will make the guy know that she likes him. Not subtle little things cause we guys have trouble reading in to girls words and actions. And then its up to the guy to make the first move.

Love it.

I don't think it's weird for a girl to make the first move. I was at a club recently for halloween, and I bumped into a girl I knew from work. We said hi real quick then parted ways. Later on tho she surprised me by walking right up to me and asking me to dance with her. TOTAL turn on, and we had a good time.

So you see...as long as you keep things feeling casual I don't see it as like a social fopaux.

Yes and No

Yes because we guys like to stay in the safe side we don't like to get rejected by girls, it turns guys on when a girl comes to us and kiss's us.

No because we would think or at least I would think that girl is desperate.

I personally would like to know if a girl likes me or not before I talk to her in this matter.

Personal Opinion

As a shy guy yes I would like it if a girls asked me out!

its perfectly fine I would prefer that girls did this

definently prefer it.. shy guys like me have a hard time making first move.

Yeah as long as your not slutty about it, it makes it way easier. I don't want to look stupid or make you feel uncomfortable.

If he likes you I'm sure he'll like it when you kiss him
It saves him the time of having to gather his courage and it also gives you a plus for kissing him first

A shy guy would love it.. and if a guy doesn't like it, it means he is not into you to begin with.

Good Luck,
James

by all means women should make the first move, that way guys don't have to worry about getting sued or arrested for sexual harassment.

Most definately! Always a plus. Gives ME assurance that she really is into me and that she trust me. When a girl gives me a kiss first or is not shy..it tells me or shows me that she will not hide things or feelings from me and just come out with what she feels.emotionally or physically in this case

Hmm. Yes and no. Yes, if the vibe is "we should be kissing but haven't yet." You know, maybe you guys are talking real close and want to and you know he is trying to find a moment. If you do it first, or even lean in a little but let US kiss YOU, that works. We don't think, "man, she's forward." We don't anything about it. Other than maybe you're into us as much as we are into you. No emasculating feelings, I promise.

No, if it's not the right mood. If you're with him at a clothing store and he's trying stuff on and looking through the racks, and you just plant one on him, it feels needy. Guys don't do good with needy.

I don't mind, I think it's more interesting when a girl makes the effort to impress a guy.

I'm a girl and I'm torn on this. I've done it twice. First time was great, but then he later confided that he wished I had made things a bid tougher for him. Huh? Ok. The second time was just wrong...lololol. We had been really flirting forever, it was fun. One day I pulled him over to me and kissed him. He completely withdrew after that ,which made me totally withdraw after that, and it ruined the friendship. I asked him what was wrong the next day. I told him we should just be friends. Then he went on this thing about us going too fast, but I had just told him we should just stay friends? LOLOLOLOLOL He gave me some BS excuse on why we should take it slow and how right now is not a good time, but the whole time I was telling him we should just be friends? LOLOLOLOL Finally, I just yes'd him all the way. He wasn't making sense. It made me feel really odd and wrong for doing that. Some guys just can't deal with it.
I'm gonna stick to the good ol fashioned way. Guys make moves first! I prefer it that way actually. I love the butterflies on my stomach. Those moments are magic.

i've heard a lot of guys say they regretted not making a move of any sort, so yeah. I suggest you should make the move.

i say do what you want I personally lose patience with all the "games". I mean I asked my senior prom date to prom

I think it's best to kiss the girl first. LOL most girls are shy like that.
... unless this is at some party, then they really wouldn't care ...
But if it's just for the average scene, then make sure you know the right timing, because if you kiss a girl out of the blue, then
1. you'd get slapped
2. you'd get sacked.
3. she'd be confused as to why you kissed her in the first place.
4. something good comes out of it.

they love it when your straight forward! Do something bold and positive, and they will definitely remember you by it.

I had a boyfriend who found it very difficult to make the first move out of fear of rejection, so he loved the fact I made the first move and kissed him. However, there are a few guys who feel that it should be them to make the first move because their the men. So I recon it's totally dependant on the lad.

depends on the guy, some guys like it when a gfirl is very forward if not a little aggressive... other guys are very timid and like it because it takes the pressure off of them, still there are other guys who think is makes a girl desperate... sorry I can't be of more help.. it jsut depends on the guy really.. make sure you know him well enough to be kissing him in the first place or asking him out or whatever it is your planning to make the first move with..

im no guy but I don't suggest it. I personally think that if you do that he would think ur desperate or so... unless he knows you like him and he likes you back.

depends on the guy, but usually it's fine as long as you know he's ready :)