Can you find good girlfriend material in the bars or clubs?

yeah I know lots of people who it has worked for been being one of them personally I think its a great place to meet guys but the ones that will leave the best impressions on you just kind of come out of no where on the bus or something you'll be shocked were you'll find the one you love

I think it is different for girls and guys.
I have a lot of guy friends, and most of them want to go to bars to meet girls. Or get laid.
Girls on the other hand, go to bars to hang out with their friends, get hit on, and flirt. But mainly, girls go to bars, just to have a good time.
There are some girls I know that go to bars for the same reasons as guys, but. Anyways, I don't think it will work out with someone you meet at a bar.
It might work out at first, but from what Iv seen through friends, and from what I've experienced, I believe it won't work.
Its always better to meet someone outside of the bar scene where alcohol is not involved.

Well, I met a guy in a bar a few months ago, so we started dating and do stuff we're both into, like going to concerts, having drinks together. It was really great, and we are still dating. So I would say that yes, you can find girlfriend material in a bar just like in any other place. It's just luck or destiny.

The girls I have seen in bars seem really nice and sweet, that is until they start drinking. If they can't handle their liquor on one night out, what makes anyone think they could be responsible enough to be in a successful relationship? A lot of women are completely against meeting a man in a bar (or finding relationship material in a bar, I should say) so why should the answer change when the sex is different? I think you're more likely to find relationship material in a setting where alcohol isn't involved.

I think you can and I have two example of why.

My parents met in a bar and have been married for over 30 years now. She was 18 and he was 22. Back then, the drinking age was 18 of course. :-)

My second example is that about five years ago my roommate and I drove to Miami for spring break. One night while out drinking she met a guy and went back to his hotel despite my best attempts to stop her. Last year I went to their wedding.

So yes, you can meet the right person in a bar, but I don't think it happens too often. :-)

I think you can. Some girls go to bars just to be with friends and have a good time, in my case when I go I don't go to meet or hook up wit guys its not my thing, but if he seems like a nice guy its worth a shit, so I think its the same thing for a guy trying to meet a girl for a relationship

I think you can. Most of the girls in the bar are just regular girls going out for a fun time. Not all of them go out 3 times a week and drink their face off. The bar has the connotation of just being a pickup/hookup establishment, which it is, so pickup someone you had fun with, then hang out another time in a non-bar environment. I've made some really good guy friends doing this that have boyfriend potential. Nothing has turned in to anything more than a FWB because that's all I want right now. To me it seems harder to find boyfriend material in the bars because it looks like they're always looking for sex more than girls. It's all in how you analyze the girls you see, we're all just potential-girlfriends in disguise having a really good time.

It can definitely work! My parents meet at a bar and have been married for twenty six years. I can't even remember a time when they didn't seem in love. Even when they're mad at each other.

But from what I've seen with my friends a such its a really rare thing. I think its because people act differently when they have been drinking or just all hyped up in general. I think it very possible though to find a person there that you like to spend time with. Hey they already have one of your interest in common! Drinking!

From my experience the chances are very slim if ever possible, rather at a more formal occasion, through family or good friends or a social gathering or feast than at a loud music pumping dark room full of strangers.

Location is meaningless. What matters is if you both click. Would you feel any different about a woman you met at a bar if you met her instead at a library? What if she was going out with her friends to the bar that very same night? My point is it doesn't matter where you two meet.

Yes, there are very few good girls that go to a bar. It might be their first time or just to socialize with their friends. They are very scarce. And yes again if a girl you like is the ones who party a lot. You know what that says about them right? For me I don't like it. Its not that they are whores but there's just something wrong with partying like that for me. If you like the outgoing and partying type then yah your good over there. I won't suggest it though

This all depends on what you're looking for. It's mind boggling to say that there are NO girls at bars who would make a good girlfriend. It depends what you're looking for. If you're looking for a teetotaling intelligentsia type, then odds aren't very good for meeting her at a bar. If you're looking solely for a girl who will be wild and party every night, then any of the girls at the bar have a good shot. Lastly, if you're looking for a girl who knows how to have a good time, but can still be reasonable and smart and funny, there's some of those at the bar too. Where else would the "girlfriend material" girls go to drink? They've got to go to the bars just like the rest of us, haha.