Can you find good girlfriend material in the bars or clubs?

Yeah I heard you can't find any good girlfriend material there. I just want to hear what peoples opinion on it is.

Don't get me wrong. It's definitely HARD to find really good girlfriend material at bars. But it's not impossible, they're there.

Nicki922002 - Are you asking me, or the person who wrote the question? I was trying to answer his question, I wasn't explaining where I meet girls. To be honest, I've never met someone at a bar. And as best I can remember, I've never even tried. If the question said "where is the best place to meet a girlfriend" I wouldn't have said a bar, that's for sure. But he asked if there's ever girlfriend material at the bar, and since I go to the bar with friends who are girlfriend material, I was confirming that yes there is.

Weather there are or not someone has to start somewhere to learn about how ladies work,Clubs and bars are for me at least a good place to hit on girls whether I find a good girl or not doesn't matter, but if that happens that's cool, I just don't expect that to happen, it would be nice though.

Thats cool but where els can you go? I'm always out at like borders and the library and record joints. They just seem scares to me anywhere you go.

I view them as being spenders and too outgoing, how bout if I had them for a girlfriend. I know that most of them would still go without me and dance around with a couple of guys. You get what I mean? I just don't like that kind of girls as my girlfriend. I also view them as being sort of rebellious, maybe even do things behind my back and don't tell me about it. And of course most of them just party instead of studying. It really affects your grades, if you know what I mean.

Haha. Not everyone is still attending school. So you should not assume that. You are just judging them. So if I hang out with bad people, I am a bad person. If I point a knife at someone, I am going to kill them? Obviously not. There could be people there, like the questioner who just wants to go to a place to meet people.

True, but you should assume everything. That's a different topic your talking about. Its hard to have a hang over at work also because they tend to sleep a whole lot later. It won't seem like it but I'm sure it decreases their efficiency. Girls there might have all the time in the world too because they might have stopped school and maybe flip burgers and party at night. You know what I mean. There's just a lot of variables.

If you hang out with bad people there's a very big chance that you are bad too. If your good why would you even hang out with the people you know who do crimes. If your saying that your still good then there's a very big chance that you'd leave them soon or maybe influence you on the things that they do. You can't say that won't happen because you hang out with them. People who know your bad friend would also portray you as one of them simply by just hanging around with them.

Pointing a knife?u won't necessarily kill them...u guys might be joking around so why'd you kill them but then if your not in good terms and you point a knife at him he could sue you, have you ever heard of attempted murder? well that's one of them kido, people also may accidentally push you and you might be just in the right position to stab them. seems ridiculous but it happens.why would you even point a knife at a person. you should point sharp objects down when your walking around with those

You can tell a party person from a responsible person. I can't deal with that, that's not what I'm looking for.

Wait what? Ask me your question and I'll try to give my opinion

No I was commenting on the party collage girl answer about not paying attention to grades or work. That's not what I'm looking for,but that's rare anyway for me to find.

Nothing real there's nothing wrong with them or me for going its just its kind of like playing russian roulette like the chances of finding a good girl feels slim.