Why Am I Undateable?

There are a few reasons why women are single.

The main reason is because women put too high of a standard on the men they interact with.

Such as paying for stuff. If a guy doesn't pay for stuff he's not getting a date. But if he pays for stuff he's a loser. Its a double bind.

The next reason is because you are coming across as unapproachable.

Men like to know that when we approach you, you are going to be warm an inviting.

We would rather approach someone like that, than someone who is shy and is constanly looking away. SImply because it can be interpreted that you don't like us or that you are boring or that your just stuck on yourself.

The way that you make yourself a better more vibrant catch is study things that make women feminine.

The more feminine you act, carry yourself the more men cannot help but be drawn to you.

The way a woman walks, the way she gestures, are just some examples.

Most guys don't know that if you "accidentally" bump into him that you like him.

There are many more reasons why women remain single.

Ill give you one more than I got to go.

If you always hang around with one other girl, meaning its you and your girlfriend, you are going to get passed up.

Why would I want to approach you when I could approach another group of 3 girls who are hotter or just as hot as you. We know taht the other girl is going to feel left out, you are going to feel bad for her and its just going to be harder on us.

Go out with 2 other girls so the other person has company.

And don't go out with more than that either, since large groups can be intimidating for some guys.

So there you have it.

You sound like her. My ex. Exactly down to the last detail. 2 years ago, had a relationship with a girl less than a year. She wasn't the onlt girl I ever dated, but she's the only ex that I still think about. Although I know what her dating status was before me, (exactly like yours, I know cause she talked about it alot.) I don't know what It was like for her after me. So, I can't say EVERY detail is there. But It still got my attention.

So, anyway, I too am facing a dating slump, where I can't seem to peak anyones interest. I'm not ugly, and I've got a odd sense of humor, but it IS a sense of humor, and a lot of people seem to enjoy it. I'm somewhat of an itellectual, although I know I still have things to pick up that I don't know sh*t about yet, but you get the idea.

In spite of all that good stuff I know I got going on, I just never seem to be anyones type. I guess I should point out that this isn't really an answer to your question. I read your question, and it kinda shocked me see almost my exact same story played out with someone else. And it made me think of her and I and it was eery, so I just wanted to say SOMEthing. I was kinda relieved to see I'm not the only one with this odd problem. That's all really. Sorry I couldn't actually help you.