What should I do? What would be good things to talk about?

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Okay, so there's a guy in my class I'm starting to like. I have talked to him but its not a great convo. I have never dated or anything like that and I don't think he has either. I am not that shy but I am sometimes.. He's not really my type because I do a lot of sports and stuff and he's not that into sports. He seems cool and I want to get to know him better. I'm not that flirty kind of girl who always talks to guys and stuff so I'm not sure what to do. I do have guy friends but its nothing more than that. We sit near each other in several classes but its because our teachers don't have us sit where ever we like they tell us where we are supposed to sit. I've never really talked to him before but we have started talking since he's now in my class, please give me sum advice I'm unsure:/ What should I do? What would be good things to talk about? Sorry this is so long:D

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He doesn't really know spanish, I no well enough. He sits behind me in this class! 0.o What do you guys like girls to talk about with you? What's a good convo starter? Any past experiences? Should I take it slow and get to no hi better b4 any thing else?

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He wanted 2 borrow my jacket because he couldn't wear his 4 not being school jacket. I said no so he started playing with my hair with a ruler, 0.o I lent him my jacket because it was distracting^_^ I got cold and think he noticed because he gave it bak.

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Okay so forget about spanish, we got new seats and he's not near me:L but he now sits in front of me in physics klaz. Ok so I'm taking my hair straightener 2 school because he's gonna try to do his hair! haha. as a dare LOL! :D c how it goes!?! l8ers

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Introduce yourself if you don't already know each other's names. find out what he thinks of the days subject matter in the class you share. Ask him what other classes he's in. Make eye contact. Dress a little flirtatious if possible.

Guys will notice attention that comes out of no where, once he has an impression that you're into him he may start reciprocating and he should start paying more attention to you if he finds you attractive.

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- Asker
  
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  Dressing flirtatious will b hard because we have to wear uniforms @my school:/ Thnkz 4 advice though!
  
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- Orion
  
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  Oh my bad I didn't think about school uniforms.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Wat experiences hav you had? What are sum topics I cud mention? I'm not so so grly but I'm no tomboy either. What if I'm bttr than him in PE? Some guys don't lyk grls beating them and I'm one of those girls?? what advice do you giv me here? I don't know know him that well 0.o
  
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- Orion
  
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  In high school I had a girl I liked that sat in front of me in spanish class, I used to ask to barrow pens. When I found out we had study period at the same time I asked her if she wanted to study together since I was a little better at it than her. From the sound of it, your jacket and playing with your hair shows he's thinking about you, take it slow, stick with the basics, classes, stuff after school, he sounds already interested, just give him enough opportunity, maybe even ask him about PE.
  
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Alright well... don't go too fast. Don't ask if you wanna hang out until you think it's right. Comment him on things he does.. like joke around sorta thing. Talk to him. Be like.. dude check this out or something. Just don't rush it.

What kind of guy is he like?

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  He's funny and he's on of the people in my klaz who makes comments or remarks in class and they get after him and he makes people laugh. He's also kind of shy. XD Teacher made him sit in front of me because he was loud where he used to sit and the seat in front olablef me was available. I'm gonna try to get to know his personality better and try 2 make mor convos. Any other advice? What are things you talk 2 girls about or they talk to you? What do you lyk 2 talk bout?
  
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- Tenks
  
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  When a girl talks to me, I just act normal. I usually like to go off talking about my sport life since I play sports. Maybe you should find something that interests him a lot.
  
  But if it's a specific girl, I'll be like saying a joke to make her laugh (friend kinda) or if it's THAT girl, then I'll act normal but look for critical things to say.
  
  Sorry it took long to re answer. XD
  
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- Asker
  
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  Lol! thnks! anyway no matter how long it takes advice is welcome. hahaXD
  
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