We broke up 2 years ago, we are still very good friends to this day. I'd say that he is one of my best friends, and he'd say the same for me.
But when we hang out together, he still flirts with me, and stares at me a little longer than normal. It actually gets really awkward for me to keep on looking at him even though we are talking because of how he still looks at me.
So, what exactly is going through his head? I want to ask him, but I know it would end up being an awkward conversation. The only reason why I could think that he stares at me like that is because he's trying to show he's interested in what I'm talking about, but it still weirds me out because the stares tend to last longer than the talking. Still doesn't explain the flirting though.
Oh and I should probably mention that he has a girlfriend.
Does he pull that when she is there as well? Then we might have a cat fight! Now is this verbal flirting or is there touching involved as well, like does he hold your waist or touch your back? I think he just wants some, have you givin' it up while you have broken up before?
Umm he has... on msn when his gf was there (this was on her account) but they were both joking around, I thought it was only his gf because well.. it should only be here and then after I found out that he was there saying most of the jokes (which were sexual)
And there isn't always touching, its all mostly verbal.
The only reason why we broke up was because at the time we weren't living in the same city and he couldn't handle a long distance relationship. - 6 months ago
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So does he have a girlfriend or not really confused, but it seems like you convinced yourself whatever you needed to - 6 months ago
Question Asker
Yes, he does have a girlfriend, I said that in the first post and in the other comment.
And convinced myself of what? I just wanted some male feedback on why he would do that because he makes me feel really awkward when he does... and I just think its weird because if you are dating someone, you shouldn't be doing those things with someone else.
It's actually gotten to the point where sometimes I don't want to hang out with him on occasion because I don't feel like being awkward all day. - 6 months ago
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