My friend and I are always texting each other and stuff. And lately whenever he is texting me he calls me sexy. Yet he has a Girlfriend. I kinda wanna know what it means if he has a girlfriend and keeps coming on to me.
It could mean that he is looking for someone other than his girlfriend. It could also mean that he just flirts with people to boost his own self-confidence. I do, and my girlfriend knows it. If I see someone who is attractive, I flirt with them because it keeps me confident and upbeat, and because I can keep my social skills going. I don't have much of a social life, so when I do get to go out, I go all out, I just don't do anything with anyone, no matter what the situation. So it could be harmless, or he could really be thinking about leaving her for you. If he does leave her for you though, I wouldn't pursue it. I mean if he did it to her what's stopping him from doing it to you?
Well lately he has complaining about how controlling she is and if she is worth all the trouble could that be a factor? - 8 months ago
Answerer
Yes, that's makes a HUGE difference. He's is looking, he may not leave her, but he's definitely looking. Like I said, I would stay away, if he can leave her for someone, he can do the same to you. - 8 months ago
Question Asker
Ok thx. For the advice - 8 months ago
Answerer
Anytime, and good luck, if you need me again you know where to find me. - 8 months ago
I think there's a couple explanations. He could just be "harmlessly" flirting. He could be putting his feelers out to see if you'll flirt back, thinking in the back of his mind that he might break up with his girlfriend. He could actively be looking for someone else. He could not even realize he's doing it!
If it means something to you, I say you just bring it up "casually," like "sexy, huh? What's up with that? " or something more smooth, but you get it. Otherwise, take the self-confidence boost and just let it go. Maybe flirt back a little, why not?
When you say "lately", does that mean he has only recently started coming on to you, calling you "sexy", etc.? He didn't do that before? If so, I think it means he's getting more into you, and less into his girlfriend. But, as lordian says, the kind of guy who does that to one girlfriend will do it to his next girlfriend, too -- so you probably want to keep your distance. On the other hand, if this guy throws around terms like "sexy" to lots of girls, then maybe he just thinks of himself as a "player", and is not really coming on to you. (But that's another reason to steer clear, right? ) Either way, I'd keep this guy at arm's length. Good luck!
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