I met this this cute guy as a customer at a gym he owns. He teaches a lot of the classes there and does personal training. We hit it off since the first day I joined and throughout the time I've known him he's acted like he was interested OFF and ON.he'll talk to me way too much, flirt, be playful with me, mess with me playfully, playfully kick or smack me in the arm, he'll say stupid stuff or do stupid stuff that seems like its for my attention, give me little nicknames whenver I'm there. One night a couple of months ago he started asking me a lot of questions about my love life what kind of men I liked and has made remarks about a boyfriend I don't even have. Even during one of our personal training sessions he made a random remark about how he'll spank me if I don't start paying attention. He's even walked me to my car a couple of times and has even talked about how he cared about me and etc. I think he's great, I'd love to date him he's a really sweet guy.but as I said he's like this OFF and ON. there will be some days where he'll see me working out by myself and he doesn't even say hello to me. I can understand he has an obligation to all his customers but when he's like this it makes me think he's not interested. I don't know what to think.am I just clueless about him being interested or am I right in thinking he's just joking around and being friendly. I am SO shy around him so talking to him about it isn't an option.so what do I do from her eon out.
He is a good salesman and a good manager of his business. He hooked you and is reeling you in like a trophy bass. He could honestly like you for you, but I am sure he appreciates your monthly dues and personal training fees just as much if not more. The only way to be sure one way or the other is to basically throw yourself at him in one of his "ON" moods. If he bites, he could just be looking for an easy lay, he could be interested in you, or he could just be covering his business bets to keep you coming in. Either way, you will find out if he actually wants to be "with" you or if he is just trying to keep your checks coming in. If you think he is hot, why not get a little somethin' somethin' with a possibility of some more down the road. If it is a one-time thing, chalk it up to experience and move on or maybe change gyms if you are too uncomfortable being around him again. Gym rats and/or personal trainers like this guy can pretty much score whenever they want to, so don't expect ".happily ever after", but why not get yourself a little one-on-one training with a hot guy if you can. Hey, for $30-$100 a month, you ought to get something besides sore muscles!
Well the reason why I think he's interested besides what I mentioned above is because: a. He doesn't do this with everyone....he's usually serious around everyone else. B. It isn't about the $ that I know for sure because he has done stuff for me...I had a back injury from a work related incident and I asked him one time if he knew any home remedies and he called his chiropractor right away and kept insisting whenever he talked to me, to visit the chiro ASAP and even offered to pay - 5 months ago
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Also because he has given me stuff he normally charges customers for, if I'm in any of his classes he's always around me or bugging me or wanting me to be his little class partner during demonstrations. Also, sometimes they have celebration events at the gym and he always asks me if I'm coming adn if I don't he always bugs me about why I didn't come. He always finds some excuse to hug me and the other night he even asked me why I didn't say goodbye to him when I left for the evening. - 5 months ago
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I could go on and on if you want me to. - 5 months ago
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Oh I forgot to mention its not a GYM type of gym its a martial arts/MMA training dojo btw. - 5 months ago
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OK, but my answer is still the same. Take him out for a spin. What could it hurt? Sounds like he may really like you. Just be prepared to find another Dojo/Gym if things don't work out between you two. Because if either of you become uncomfortable around the other because of personal issues, neither of you would be doing the ethical thing by continuing the business arrangement. Good luck Daniel-San. - 5 months ago
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