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Ladies, if you have a boyfriend would you still hang out with a guy you dated?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 9 months ago
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So there's this chick whom I dated sort of we, were going to get serious and then she met some other guy or whatever point is I don't care, but she wants to hang out with me, and I said are you sure you want to, even though we have history I mean it was only like a month ago when I stopped seeing her. See with me she's is swimming with a shark, chances are I won't mess with you if you don't provoke me, but she has she's already provoked me as in she pissed me off for getting some other guy.

I am not a nice guy but I am very good actor, and I will probably get her to cheat because it would make me feel better and then get her to like me again, and then I would say nope not going happen I don't want to be with you, you had your chance. Sounds like a dick thing to do I know but I told you I am not a nice guy and just the thought of that revenge would make me feel so much better.

So ladies without knowing how bad I was would you really want to have a guy who you liked and you were about to get serious with come over to your house and hang out with you, wouldn't that be too tempting especially if it has only been about month since you last saw him?


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Wow!.. This is EXACTLY my situation but the other way around. I was dating a guy, we kinda were on the path to gettin serious, never did, and 2 months later he met some girl that he's been dating for a YEAR. I hadn't talked to him the entire time, he contacted me 2 months ago and we have been talking ever since. I'm in your boat, I know I could get him to cheat and get him to like me. But like you said you want the revenge for what she did to you, and that's how I feel about him, I want to suck him in and then tell him no its too late now you had your chance but you decided to settle down with her instead.

Seems to me that she's def confused. You say its only been a month, so I assume that's how long they have been dating for, which is not long at all. She may be having second feelings on kicking you to the curb for this other guy or things arn't to happy in her little fairy tale. I don't see how either of these people in our situations NOT get tempted. Somethings guna go down when you hang out, and they HAVE to know that. When your physically attracted to someone and that attraction is still there its pretty much impossible not 2 keep your hands off of each other.

How I see it is, is how serious could they be with this guy and girl they chose over us, if there still tryin to hang out with us, ya know? Personally, I think we should do what we have to do to get over the situation. Just like you he's already provocked me by settling down with a girl besides me after leading me to believe it was guna get serious, but hopefully we keep our hearts out of this love triangle and not fall for them again!

p.s. THERE BOTH VERY SELFISH!
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