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What should I do when other guys distract me? I'm in a long distance realtonship but everyone's got problems.

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srsrabbit (Age:Under 18)     When: 2 months ago
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Okay, here's the story
My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and 1 week. We survived the summer and we both were very confident when I had to move at the end of the summer that we were gonna be able to make a long distance relationship work.
We talk all the time and I know that I'm not bothering him too much because when ever I don't txt or call him he txts or calls me, so we're on the same page about wanting to talk all the time and all.
The other day when we were txting I could tell something was wrong and when I asked he said that nothing was wrong that he was just thinking. But whatever it was was bothering him enough that I wanted to just give him a big hug but being almost 400 miles away that wasn't really possible. So I was trying to get him to tell me about it and he didn't want to and I was being stupid and kept on trying to get him to tell me and I made him even more upset so I told him that I was sorry and that he could just txt me back in a little while if he wanted and he took the offer so I said I love you and his reply to that was "well you may not" and of course that worried me
This is all relevant bcz that day I started to realise this guy that was flirting hard core with me and my friends say that he'd been doing it since the beginning of the school year but I kinda think that he's a guy that I would actually go out with. But then a few days later one of my ex's started txting me again and he wouldn't admit to being up to anything but I could tell that he wasn't just talking to me to talk.

I really love my boyfriend, and I know that kinda sounds stupid coming from a 15 year old because "i'm so naive" but I love him and he says he loves me and he's given me no reason to not believe him. We've talked since the "I may not love him anymore" dispute and everythings fine again but I still can't help but think about the guy at school and my ex. I'm not looking for answers, I'm just seeking advice.

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Da-One-n-Only- (Age:18 to 24)      When: 18 days ago
I say as advice take a chance with the guy at school. Because long distant relationships never ever work out,it seems okay right now but it gets harder. Your young don't wait up for that boy,it sounds like all ya had was a summer love going on. Yeah your ganna have strong feeling for him but they will fade away slowly.Really sounds like your getting over it with that other guy from school which isn't bad at all.
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