What do I do?!? My girlfriend hates my best friend.

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend hates my best friend, who is a girl I used to have feelings for. My girlfriend doesn't want to have anything to do with her. What do I do?

[Leseul]

This is exactly what happened with me and my ex... which is pretty much why he is now my ex... He would talk to his friend all the time, two hours of late night phone calls every damn night.

But all you can do is just let your girlfriend know that she is the one you want, not your bestfriend, and what is in the past is in the past and that she needs to learn to trust you more. She is only hating on your bestfriend because she feels like there is competition and that she is a roadblock to be with you.

[NMMan]

Your girlfriend doesn't necessarily need to be BFF with your best friend, or even like her all that much. However, your girlfriend should *respect* the fact that this girl is your best friend, and if she can't accept your best friend, then in a way she's not accepting you.

[CrystalB4ller]

you be a real man and tell her that it's your friend, and if she has a problem with that too bad. don't sacrifice friends or things you like just because your girlfriend can be a bitch. unless you do have feelings for the other girl; then its your own problem.

[boi818]

Put yourself in her shoes and maybe that'll help you understand why that would bother her.

[Dela1111]

IF your girlfriend can't get over her jealousy and controlling nature, then you honestly shouldn't be with her.