I've always wanted my girlfriend to cheat on me but she never would but when we broke up she had sex with another guy a week later and there was nothing else I heard hearing (a friend was at the party who told me) so its not like I don't enjoy it and I was totally fine not Because we broke up and I was done but I really enjoyed it, I was just wondering if there are any girls out there who wouldn't mind being in a relationship like this, I would only cheat if you allowed me to too so it could be just you having fun and I'd be totally fine with that. anyone be OK with this?
It's best to use that term rather then "cheat"..cheating is emotionaly wrong in a relationship. Your girlfriend will better understand you. Your situation has to do with a sexual fetish, but the relationship is still healthy.
But if you want to "cheat" too, maybe it's a swinger type thing. I'm sure many adventurous girls would be fine with it. I wouldn't be because sex and intimacy tie into one another for me. I wouldn't be able to have sex with someone (eww, strangers) and then cuddle up to you. It just does not work. I guess you should look for more sex based relationships.
You're not asking for a woman to cheat on you, you're asking permission to be in an open relationship or possibly to "Swing". This boils down to commitment issues and self esteem. If you're not ready to be in a committed relationship, then don't be in one. if you want to play the field and still have a woman at home, you're asking a tall order from any woman because jealousy is a natural instinct. We covet and protect what is ours by nature. it takes a very specific type of woman to be able to partake in a relationship like this and I promise those women are few and far between, and will not respect you as a man, and probably have self respect issues themselves. make your choice but make sure that the woman you become involved in fully understands your grounds and wishes and the life you've chosen for yourself. Good luck in your search.
You fall under the cuckolded category of sexual appetites. Watching your girl getting it on with another guy. Yeah, there are women into it for sure! Just like there are open hook ups, ie. one main squeeze and several other options. There's also the swingers, who just switch partners from time to time, etc.
My ex boyfriend always asked me to sleep with other men. He told me all about the cuckhold and that this was a big fantasy of his. I never was keen on it. Everyone told me it was weird. I think he is secretly gay or at least a bit bi-sexual
Your into "open relationships" No I'm not into it. Cheating is wrong for lots of reasons. Hurting someones feelings, giving your partner an std, hurting others around you if you have kids, or other people that love you both as a couple. Why cheat when you have someone that fulfills you. Why ruin something you have. Cheaters are people who are selfish, take people for granted, and don't appreciate what they have.
ask yourself this: would it turn you on to see me sliding my big fat **** into your girlfriend? Would it turn you on to watch me make her come in ways you've never seen? Would you enjoy it if she came to me instead of you for sexual satisfaction? If so, you are a cuck. Many girls and guys are into this lifestyle. You should make these desires known at the beginning of the relationship though. I'm sure many women would enjoy having a confidant and the friendship and security of a boyfriend and still be able to seek out and f*** the best sex partner she could find. Its like a license to be a slut without the negative blowback. If you're into it seems like you could have a successful relationship with a woman into the same thing. Although some women would lose respect for a guy like that.