What to do when your girlfriend still have a soft corner for her ex boyfriend?I really love her....

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What to do when your girlfriend still have a soft corner for her ex boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I disagree with the guys' answers. Just because she seemingly still cares about her ex doesn't mean she doesn't love you or care about you. It's normal to reminisce about the past and think "what if?" but the grass is always greener on the other side. If you truly love someone, that spot in your heart never really goes away completely, you just accept it and move on to a bigger love that fills its space. Do I think about exes? Sure, and sometimes I even miss them as a person. But I would never want to be with them instead of my boyfriend, because they're in the past and I'm with him.

The real issue here isn't whether or not she still has feelings for her ex, it's how/if she acts upon those feelings and respects your relationship.

When you're with her, is she with you (meaning emotionally in the moment)?

Do you trust her? Do you think she would cheat on you with him?

How long has she been broken up with him before you got together?

[cazza3]

Many of us, men and women hold a person from our past in our heart for life. I have an ex that I will always care about because regardless of what happened between us, he is still a good guy. Our timing wasn't right and we were too young. Under different circumstances it might or might not have worked out, who knows. But that doesn't mean I want to go back to him or wish I was still with him. He was a part of my life and just because it didn't work out doesn't make him an a**hole.

I'm with my s.o for 11 years and he knows this guy pretty well, we're even going to his wedding next month.

[Anonymous]

Did your girlfriend told you about that? It's a secret most of us girls..It's offended, Maybe she can't help compare her ex to you and that's a bad sign but it doesn't mean that she love her ex more than you.

[mshaker]

Shes just not that into you buddy. Sorry. I would rather tell you the straight answer, then beat around the bush like the other 2 fools that answered below.

She needs time to be alone, and get over him. Which she clearly hasn't done. Your "relationship" is stopping her from getting over him.

Why do you want to be with a girl, that thinks of another man?

Sorry but I don't think your relationship will work. Its better to end it now.

[Anonymous]

If you can't live with the possibility that she will cheat on you, then dump her.

[Anonymous]

You simply have to be always there for her.

Spend a lot of your time with her. Let her feel that the only man she's only wanting is already by her side. Take her out to dates. Hang out a lot with her.

[Anonymous]

I'd trust the answers from girls only about this if I were you

[NerdyAnon]

Confront her about it.

[mshaker]

Confront her and say what? Why are you thinking of another man. Buddy you can't stop someone from feeling and thinking the ways they do. Your wrong. He needs to dump her so she can be single and get over him. Confronting her will only cause an argument between them.

[NerdyAnon]

I never talked about what the confrontation would entail. I agree with you, he does need to dump her. I would be hurt in this situation and confront, leading to a break-up in the midst of the confrontation.